Guest Posted March 2, 2007 Posted March 2, 2007 Right where do i start? Basically i REALLY need to get over this guy. thing is, hes my best friend... he said he used to like me but now doesnt, infact hes in a relationship with a girl he says he loves. she says she loves him too. im not in a relationship, and never have been. im a quiet girl, and i dont think of myself of attractive. therefore when my friends get in relationships, although selfish, i get annoyed coz they have someone and i dont. now im totally crazy in love with him, he doesnt know the half of it because although he knows i like him, theres only so much u can tell someone before they go 'woah, thats a bit scary, we're supposed to be best mates' anyway i REALLY need to get over him - thing is, he doesnt know that i NEED to get over him - i.e. doesnt know how much of a mess i am over all this - and therefore i kind of need to get over him without making it obvious. im away at uni, so i dont see him regularly, not more than once a month. its always over msn that we talk, or when i go home for the holidays. how are you supposed to get over someone while you're still trying to be their best friend? its not like I can just disappear for a few months to get over him, hes a constant presence in my life although ive taken all the photos of him down in my room, hoping that will help.... i hope someone has some advice, because im in such a mess, i really have no idea how to go about this.
Guest Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 aw bless you this must be quite hard for you at the moment. to be honest, the best thing is to stay out of the other person's way and get them out of your life, but you've made it clear you cant do that. i have never really had to get over any of my friends, any break up i have had ive been able to cut myself off. sorry this isnt really an answer, or any help, just a little message to say that you're not alone in all of this, billions of people live in this world and breaking up and getting over someone is a common thing. i dont know if anyone else has some actual advice to help you through?
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