how can i have my own space?

[IaNlLNOzVsE]

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and I havent been away from him for more then 3 days.I can't go out and have fun with my friends without thinking about my BF. I don't even think i no how to be loud and fun anymore:( AT least not like they do, I guess i feel a little left out. I cry when ever me and my BF arnt around each other,even if its only been 1 hr. I love being with him so much that I have lost the person who I am, i feel like i am him, and i wish i could just life my life without me relying on him for once... but without the pain. I hate these feelings I feel like they are gonna ruin things between me and my boyfriend, we have to spend our time apart but i have so much trouble. WHAT SHould I do

[loverboy212]

i have been in this situation before and i was in love with this girl. I decided that we should take break....a break will be hard but its something that will get u back the way u used to be...and after like a month i got back with her and felt like my old self again

[gonetildecember]

to tell u the truth i was exactly like this about 4 years back with an ex.. and i learned the hard way that it was not a good idea.. we eventually got so sick of each other that we would bicker and argue all the time.. it was unhealthy

 

its gonna be hard.. for me i thought if we werent together he'd be doing something he shouldnt or he would somehow forget

 

with my last ex i made it a point of mantaining my own life... doing girls nights.. going to clubs.. if i was being good, i realised he could too! it was an insecurity issue for me (dunno if its the same for u... or maybe u guys just really like each others company) if u guys are apart theres always a phone call or a text message.. but trust me a little time apart will do u good, it will make the time u spend together even more special and u will get those butterflies u used to get before u saw him back again!

 

a few days apart isnt the end of the world