frannie Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Yes, you are the OW. You do not have children with him, you don't live with him and you are not his wife! You didn't say vows to him either. You don't know his friends, his family, his neighbours. You get the 'good stuff' on the side, the fun, the fantasy life that keeps him coming back for more when his home life gets too much for him - He can escape and be with you. Sorry to say this, but you need a big reality check...Yes, you are the OW. Just from a philosophical point of view... If a woman has children with a man, he lives with her, and they share friends and family (from a blood-relative point of view)... but he's married to another woman (no children)... then would your response be different..?
pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 But in society she is the OW... he may be in a committed relationship, but not committed to his wife possibly in material, but not in body mind and soul... Now these relationships are far and few between and I know that men want more then they have, or they just seek what is missing from the other relationship... weather it be emotional or physical... then it gets complicated and people often convince themselves that they are more then they really are to the other person... but in most cases it just isn't the case... I would like to hear from a other woman or a other man where they did end up with MM and how it is turning out... Is there trust, passion, love, understanding, commitment, friendship, compassion, and fedielity???
frannie Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 In all honesty... WHO someone is married to really means nothing much in the great scheme of love. Now... who will end up with whom..? That's a different question.
pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 In all honesty... WHO someone is married to really means nothing much in the great scheme of love. Now... who will end up with whom..? That's a different question. Yes it does... yes it does
frannie Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Yes it does... yes it does What are you saying..? I said 'in the scheme of love' ... not that it matters (which it does).
pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 What are you saying..? I said 'in the scheme of love' ... not that it matters (which it does). I guess I don't know what you are saying... I think that a MM will do anything to protect himself to save his ass that is the scheme of love... love for his own self
frannie Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 I guess I don't know what you are saying... I think that a MM will do anything to protect himself to save his ass that is the scheme of love... love for his own self Ah right. Well I don't believe that. But perhaps it's true of your MM.
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