ShyGuy91 Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 Ok I know questions like these have been asked and answered millions of times, but I want some advice. There is this girl in my school (same class/subjects as me) and I find her really attractive and can't forget about her. Believe me this is not just attraction... Its been about 2 years now that I've found her attractive yet I don't know what to do. I am really shy about asking a girl out and I can say that I just don't have the balls... Both of us are already friends meaning we do usually talk everyday and I have her MSN ID, and sometimes we talk online too. I don't know how I should approach this. Her Ex-BF is my online buddy and he wants me to talk to her as he is not in the country right now and she has blocked him on msn. But considering my feelings for her I am not really sure about this. Please help, looking forward for some friendly honest advice, Regards, ShyGuy91.
murphomatic Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 Ok I know questions like these have been asked and answered millions of times, but I want some advice. There is this girl in my school (same class/subjects as me) and I find her really attractive and can't forget about her. Believe me this is not just attraction... Its been about 2 years now that I've found her attractive yet I don't know what to do. I am really shy about asking a girl out and I can say that I just don't have the balls... Both of us are already friends meaning we do usually talk everyday and I have her MSN ID, and sometimes we talk online too. I don't know how I should approach this. Her Ex-BF is my online buddy and he wants me to talk to her as he is not in the country right now and she has blocked him on msn. But considering my feelings for her I am not really sure about this. Please help, looking forward for some friendly honest advice, Regards, ShyGuy91.May be a big assumption - but I'm assuming you're about 16 years old. When I was that age - I was really, really shy about asking girls out as well. I've come to realize in my later years that I was just being foolish, and if I had the chance to do it over again - I'd go back and tell the girl very simply and honestly - "I think you're really beautiful and I'd love to take you out sometime." Don't over-do it... just be honest. She'll appreciate the compliment, and if the feelings are mutual - she'll probably accept. Women are human just like you - not mythical creatures to be held in awe and fear. If the feeling isn't mutual and she turns you down - it may make your friendship a bit awkward with her ... but that's really going to be based on how well you handle rejection, and how well she handles the fact that her friend is attracted to her. You're young yet - so now is the time to take some risks.
gonetildecember Posted March 2, 2007 Posted March 2, 2007 In terms of her ex being your online buddy, if you're really into her- don't be his messenger.. Regarding her and u.. if you're really shy about doing it.. u can try something like an e-card.. it's simple and u can pick one that fits ur personality.. and that way u don't have to do it face to face (in case that's what makes u nervous).... u can attach a read receipt to it so u know when she opens it if u want to... and girls love sweet sentimental stuff like that. .. just an idea. go for it tho.. if u guys have known each other for a while and ur really that attracted.. why not just go for it... good luck!
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