Dumped_Vader Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 I've just been dumped by my gf of 1.5years. I'm torn between wanting her back and trying to move on. I feel defeated. I don't feel the need to cry. In fact, life has just stopped and I don't know what to do
justagirlforever Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 wow - for someone who's just been dumped you're already showing immense strength even just thinking about moving on and letting things be. Not feeling the need to cry is probably due to not sinking in yet. But it's generally part of a healing process - amongst a whole bunch of other emotions. Did it come unexpected?
Guest Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 I am so sorry DV. You sound as if you are in shock. Can you tell us what happened?
Author Dumped_Vader Posted February 28, 2007 Author Posted February 28, 2007 It was unexpected however looking back now, the various signs were there but I was too lovesick to notice. The straw that broke the camel's back was when I had forgotten to give her $10 for lunch when I promised it to her. For the record I did GENUINELY forget to give it to her and I did offer to deposit it into her account so she could still get it but she really took it out on me about all the things about our relationship and I tried reasoning with her and I even asked her why she didn't say anything before but she didn't give a reason and now she hates me
Dubb Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 Go No Contact!!! Man i know for a fact if I did that from the start I would of got her back!
Author Dumped_Vader Posted March 1, 2007 Author Posted March 1, 2007 The reality of losing my partner is slowly sinking in as I type this. We tried talking last night which degenerated into a fight with a lot of insults being traded. I said some things I'm not proud of and it has made things a LOT worse. I just found it difficult to deal with. We've had problems before and we always resolved them but this time, I could feel there was something different. I'm trying hard to look after myself and keep focused. I've now got some motivation to lost a few pounds and I'm alsoinspired to study hard to win a scholarship to study at Keio university in Japan.
jusified Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 Hi man, if sheis asking you for money and then leaves you cos you forgot then she aint worth it. You deserve better
kimba Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 All over ten dollars?????? Go no contact. Get your scholarship. Find someone worth their salt.
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