Syncratic. Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 If you're interested feel free to read on and comment as you like. If you're not, just ignore me. =] You see, I know this girl for about 5 monts. She has someone already. (That'll change later on in the story.) For 5 months we have been kissing, hugging, loving each other and such. I asked her many times if she could choose for me. She said no. Now, a few couple of weeks ago, she said her feelings for her date were falling apart, and they constantly fighted. So, I was getting some hope, of course, after 5 months. =/ The vacation came along, and I couldn't see her for 14 days. I messaged her by phone many times but never got a response besides one time, when she said she missed me and loved me lots. So, the last day, the day before school, I messaged her again asking if she wanted to see me at the train-station; we usually go there before school. She said: "No, there has been some things going on in the vacation, let's go to the group." So I asked: "Why? What's wrong then?" I'm not a very patient guy if it comes to such messages, you see. The messaged me back saying: "Leave me alone." Again, I messaged her saying: "Alright I will." So, the next day comes along, school. I haven't said ANY word to her. She apologized but still, I refused to listen; I was hurted and pissed. She pretty much suffered the whole day; I did too, but you don't say such things to someone who loves you, you know. The evening of Monday arrives, I send some messages to her saying: "I want to speak to you tomorrow." She answered: "Alright. I tried speaking to you but you ignored me, so not much point of trying any further." I asked what's wrong and what actually happened in the vacation, she answered that she broke up with her friend, and met someone in camp that made her realise that she wanted her freedom back, and she wasn't ready for comitment. After a few messages we kinda got into a fight again. So, the next day arrives, Thuesday. I ignored her again for the first 4 hours and I got a message in class from her saying that she wanted to talk but she didn't dare. She misses our talking and hugs. I said, we'll talk in the lunch time. Lunch time arrives, we didn't really talk at all, we just looked at each other's eyes and huged for 5 minutes non-stop. We gave a few kisses, and such. So, the evening comes, and it's time for everyone to go to home. I usually walk her after the train-station and I go back. We stopped, kissed with our tongue, pretty long and such and said good-bye. I messaged her again saying if she really wants to give it up. She answered not obviously but she mentioned she wanted a new start and such. She said she's having less feelings for me because she hasn't seen me in 15 days or something; I personally thinks that's b*ull****. So I asked her if she wanted to go out tomorrow; we have a half day school, so.. She said she couldn't because she's already going out with some friend she met on camp; which is making me worrying. I wouldn't be suprised if she kissed this guy. Im jealous, yeah, but this is kinda hard for me, you know. So, I said to her, take the freedom and time you want. I'm always ready for you, like I have been. She said that was very sweet and all. So, today was only a half a day school so I can't really tell much. I saw her, hugged her, said good-bye after school and an hour later I saw her in the street with a friend of her she's hanging out with today. I'm not really scared, but I'm worried. I saw this guy, he isn't really skinny, but kinda fat. She laughed while I saw her. I was in the car, I said "Hey!" and she also said "Hey!" But she walked on. I was planning on sending her a message so, I did. I said I forgot to give the letter with poems I wrote, I missed her, I loved her, she was the one. But haven't got an answer yet back, and it has been about two hours or something. So yeah, if you can imagine yourself in my spot, you know I'm getting worried. I don't think she'll kiss the guy, but you never know. =o But now, I'm a bit getting desperate. I need some serious advice, nothing like dump her, f*uck her, move on, etc. I want to have advice how I can win her love for me. I seriously hope someone can help me.
princesspeaches Posted March 1, 2007 Posted March 1, 2007 If you're interested feel free to read on and comment as you like. If you're not, just ignore me. =] You see, I know this girl for about 5 monts. She has someone already. (That'll change later on in the story.) For 5 months we have been kissing, hugging, loving each other and such. I asked her many times if she could choose for me. She said no. Now, a few couple of weeks ago, she said her feelings for her date were falling apart, and they constantly fighted. So, I was getting some hope, of course, after 5 months. =/ The vacation came along, and I couldn't see her for 14 days. I messaged her by phone many times but never got a response besides one time, when she said she missed me and loved me lots. So, the last day, the day before school, I messaged her again asking if she wanted to see me at the train-station; we usually go there before school. She said: "No, there has been some things going on in the vacation, let's go to the group." So I asked: "Why? What's wrong then?" I'm not a very patient guy if it comes to such messages, you see. The messaged me back saying: "Leave me alone." Again, I messaged her saying: "Alright I will." So, the next day comes along, school. I haven't said ANY word to her. She apologized but still, I refused to listen; I was hurted and pissed. She pretty much suffered the whole day; I did too, but you don't say such things to someone who loves you, you know. The evening of Monday arrives, I send some messages to her saying: "I want to speak to you tomorrow." She answered: "Alright. I tried speaking to you but you ignored me, so not much point of trying any further." I asked what's wrong and what actually happened in the vacation, she answered that she broke up with her friend, and met someone in camp that made her realise that she wanted her freedom back, and she wasn't ready for comitment. After a few messages we kinda got into a fight again. So, the next day arrives, Thuesday. I ignored her again for the first 4 hours and I got a message in class from her saying that she wanted to talk but she didn't dare. She misses our talking and hugs. I said, we'll talk in the lunch time. Lunch time arrives, we didn't really talk at all, we just looked at each other's eyes and huged for 5 minutes non-stop. We gave a few kisses, and such. So, the evening comes, and it's time for everyone to go to home. I usually walk her after the train-station and I go back. We stopped, kissed with our tongue, pretty long and such and said good-bye. I messaged her again saying if she really wants to give it up. She answered not obviously but she mentioned she wanted a new start and such. She said she's having less feelings for me because she hasn't seen me in 15 days or something; I personally thinks that's b*ull****. So I asked her if she wanted to go out tomorrow; we have a half day school, so.. She said she couldn't because she's already going out with some friend she met on camp; which is making me worrying. I wouldn't be suprised if she kissed this guy. Im jealous, yeah, but this is kinda hard for me, you know. So, I said to her, take the freedom and time you want. I'm always ready for you, like I have been. She said that was very sweet and all. So, today was only a half a day school so I can't really tell much. I saw her, hugged her, said good-bye after school and an hour later I saw her in the street with a friend of her she's hanging out with today. I'm not really scared, but I'm worried. I saw this guy, he isn't really skinny, but kinda fat. She laughed while I saw her. I was in the car, I said "Hey!" and she also said "Hey!" But she walked on. I was planning on sending her a message so, I did. I said I forgot to give the letter with poems I wrote, I missed her, I loved her, she was the one. But haven't got an answer yet back, and it has been about two hours or something. So yeah, if you can imagine yourself in my spot, you know I'm getting worried. I don't think she'll kiss the guy, but you never know. =o But now, I'm a bit getting desperate. I need some serious advice, nothing like dump her, f*uck her, move on, etc. I want to have advice how I can win her love for me. I seriously hope someone can help me. I know that its a little late since you posted this yesterday morning, but did she ever respond? Telling you to move on or whatever is never advice that anyone wants to hear, ever. Especially if you aren't ready to move on. I've never cheated on a boyfriend, but I've been cheated on. When the other woman asked him to chose, he always chose me. This doesn't say alot but my point was, if you had been asking her to chose and she didn't want to choose between you two, that was because she had already made a choice, and she didn't want to hurt your feelings. 5 months don't seem like that long to have alot of feelings vested in eachother, but I'm a hopeless romantic and I understand some people do fall in love quickly. I think that after her distance during her 14 day vacation and her telling you she wants freedom is what you should respect. I also don't ever recommend ignoring anyone ever, its immature and it doesn't solve anything it just makes things worse. But I've learned through my own mistakes. My advice is to give her her freedom. If it's meant to be she'll come back to you. Giving her letters telling her she;s the one when she's just told you she want's freedom will probably push her away. I know I would take a huge step back in that because that would show me that he doesn't respect my feelings. But that's just me, good luck with her.
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