PrincessGeekness Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 Hopefully I wont get flamed for this, but I have a serious problem. I recently made friends with a new girl I met through a social club I've taken up. At first, we started to get along really well. We hung out after hours and seemed to have similar interests. However, she's recently been acting in such a way that I'm starting to get the opinion that she's either very competitive and/or possibly jealous. The group has kind of taken a shine to both of us, and constantly talk about both of us. She seems to like the attention, I on the other hand would prefer none of it. I really have NO beef with her taking the spot light, I would prefer it! She recently told me that she has some interest in this one guy in our group. And constantly asks me if I think he might be interested in her. I really have no clue as I never really see them together. She then asked one of her other friends in the group, and her other friend said she thought he was interested in me. My friend then tells me this and wants to know what I think. Now, I've heard some history about these two girls. At one time, they both liked the same guy, and by the story, made fools of themselves. This guy wanted absolutely nothing to do with either girls. So I'm guessing her friend told her that he might be interested in me just to play their regular mind games with each other. I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I would really just not want to get caught up in the drama. I dont befriend many women simply to avoid the drama. All the close female friends I do have, are smart, beautiful mature women who I've never known to play these mind games with anyone. Should I just start to distance myself from the group? I was really enjoying getting to know all of these people in the group. But I dont know why she would tell me she thinks her crush might like me and basically ask me what I think. As if I have any control over him liking or not liking me.
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