Mass413 Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 My girlfriend and I argue a lot. Usually they aren't bad, and we can resolve them, but occasionally they don't really have a solution, because after a bit of arguing, she'll just resort to a whatever attitude, and won't want to talk about it anymore. She's getting to the point where she thinks it'd be better for us to stop seeing eachother, because the arguing isn't worth the relationship? Any ways I can change this or fix this problem?
laRubiaBonita Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 My girlfriend and I argue a lot. Usually they aren't bad, and we can resolve them, but occasionally they don't really have a solution, because after a bit of arguing, she'll just resort to a whatever attitude, and won't want to talk about it anymore. She's getting to the point where she thinks it'd be better for us to stop seeing eachother, because the arguing isn't worth the relationship? Any ways I can change this or fix this problem? what sort of things are you two arguing over?
Author Mass413 Posted February 27, 2007 Author Posted February 27, 2007 we fight sometimes over tiny useless things like doing something alone vs. going out in a group, but sometimes over bigger things like recently I felt like she was physically moving away from me. Less alone time, less excitement to be around me ect.. She assured me it was just because we haven't had a chance to be alone, and the only times we have were after long days of school/work.
laRubiaBonita Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 have you made bona fide attempts to be alone with her, and just hang out and be a cute little-ole couple that every girl secretly, or Not so secretly wants? if all she is asking for is some one-on-one time, and i can see you two are both busy, but why not? relationships do take work, especially when you are uber-busy.... but it CAN be done, even if it is just meeting up for coffee during the week for 30 min or more.
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