xBroken2Piecesx Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 To cut a long story short. I've been with girl for over a year now. But the both of us knew from the start that this was going to be a rocky relationship because the both of us would be going to 2 different countries and it would be a long distance relationship. Well, I left July of last year and instead of breaking up, we decided to just go with the flow. Things were tough and I had to make a lot of sacrifices to keep the relationship going even though there were times when i thought that it would be best to let go. The 5 hours time difference really was an issue but i just love her too much i guess. Well, after being away from each other for 7 months i decided to take a trip back to spend some time with her before she left. It was great at first, we would spend every day together until a week before she left. I got into a car accident a few weeks later and that's when she started acting weird. It was like she didn't have time for me because she would be out with friends when she said that she couldn't go out with me and when i asked her about it, she would just get mad. 4 days before she left, we decided to meet up to talk about us and where we were headed. We decided to just be friends because she said she wasn't strong enough. She cried as she said those words and apologized. I just gave her what she wanted. The days after that went by pretty quickly. I was a bit shaken by what happened but she seemed calm about it. I even went to the airport to send her off. What i want to know is - 1. what did she mean when she said it wasn't fair for the both of us if i stayed on and waited for her? because i wanted to and she made me promise not to. 2. Should i wait for her? because she still means the world to me or should i just go on with life because i'm missing her to bits and pieces right now but she doesn't seem to miss me at all. I would be the one sending her text messages. She didn't seem to appreciate my calls. 3. What do to? because i'm depressed and lonely right now. I miss her with all my heart and it's driving me crazy.
Guest Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 To cut a long story short. I've been with girl for over a year now. But the both of us knew from the start that this was going to be a rocky relationship because the both of us would be going to 2 different countries and it would be a long distance relationship. Well, I left July of last year and instead of breaking up, we decided to just go with the flow. Things were tough and I had to make a lot of sacrifices to keep the relationship going even though there were times when i thought that it would be best to let go. The 5 hours time difference really was an issue but i just love her too much i guess. Well, after being away from each other for 7 months i decided to take a trip back to spend some time with her before she left. It was great at first, we would spend every day together until a week before she left. I got into a car accident a few weeks later and that's when she started acting weird. It was like she didn't have time for me because she would be out with friends when she said that she couldn't go out with me and when i asked her about it, she would just get mad. 4 days before she left, we decided to meet up to talk about us and where we were headed. We decided to just be friends because she said she wasn't strong enough. She cried as she said those words and apologized. I just gave her what she wanted. The days after that went by pretty quickly. I was a bit shaken by what happened but she seemed calm about it. I even went to the airport to send her off. What i want to know is - 1. what did she mean when she said it wasn't fair for the both of us if i stayed on and waited for her? because i wanted to and she made me promise not to. 2. Should i wait for her? because she still means the world to me or should i just go on with life because i'm missing her to bits and pieces right now but she doesn't seem to miss me at all. I would be the one sending her text messages. She didn't seem to appreciate my calls. 3. What do to? because i'm depressed and lonely right now. I miss her with all my heart and it's driving me crazy. The simple answer: she just isn't into you anymore and is trying to let you down easy.
Author xBroken2Piecesx Posted March 2, 2007 Author Posted March 2, 2007 Yeah, I know that. It's pretty obvious, isn't it? I was just in denial about it and was hoping that someone could give me a bit of hope and prove me wrong. Thanks anyway.
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