wookinpanub Posted February 26, 2007 Posted February 26, 2007 My ex-girlfriend broke up with me back at the beginning of last October. We had dated for about 2 years. I have agonized and tortured myself since then wondering what I did wrong and how I could fix it, to no avail. She said it was only temporary, until I went to talk to someone and learn to trust better, which was a huge argument between us. Looking back now, I do see that I should have trusted me more, but she should have also given me more reason to trust. I had been dicked around in the past before her and I was unfair in that I let those experiences carry over into our relationship. Well I went and talked to someone for a few months and my ex and I kept talking. The possibility of us getting back together growing slimmer. I had been suspecting her of dating this other guy and frequently asked her about it, to which she said no until the day before Thanksgiving. She admitted that they were dating. She called me the next day and told me they broke up. Well things started to look up. I didn't want to be over her and it seemed like we might get back together. Until new year's eve day. This other guy called me and was like "stop talking to her. she doesn't want to hear from you anymore. we never broke up, i dont know where you heard that, blah blah." and she proceeded to ignore my calls for like 2 weeks. Well it was the weekend of january 15th, right before I went back to school. I went to visit some friends in philly that weekend. she called me on saturday night. I won't lie, I had still missed her and all I wanted was to be with her, despite having gone on a few dates with some girls who I considered only friends (I think they were just trying to cheer me up and get my mind off of her). She called to talk to me, cuz her mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. I thought she might finally be coming back to me. She said she wasn't really into this other guy and that she only felt like she could talk to me. We proceeded to keep talking, and about 3 weeks ago she told me she wasn't talking to her boyfriend for like a month cuz of something. Well I found out last night that that was a lie. They have been hanging out like non stop. I finally think I am over her. It's been a growing feeling I have had. She has been like "oh, i miss you. i want to work things out." Well I say if she really wanted to work things out, she wouldn't be with him. She wouldn't be lying to me. All of this I have said to her and she makes only excuses. Well I am done with it. Those few weeks when her and I weren't talking were good. I was getting over her and moving on until she popped up again. I'm done with it. Someone can only be dicked around so much, right? It isn't my fault what happened after we broke up. I'm moving on.
bubbalump Posted February 26, 2007 Posted February 26, 2007 "Someone can only be dicked around so much, right?" RIGHT!, you deserve much better. Don't look at the past few months as a anything other than a learning experiance...she strung you along for a while and you didn't get anything out of it other than unneeded heart ache. " I'm moving on." Good for you.
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