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So I went out with a a friend of a friend. Really nice guy we had met over the summer, but with group of friends. I really did not pay to much attention to him-little bit. But after months of him asking afriend for my number, he emailed me. We had great converstions via email and I had a shopping trip planed for Boston so he asked me out for dinner, when I was in town.

We went I wore my cutiest dress and my hair looked so good. We went out and had a terrific time dinner drinks unitl 1:00 in the moring. Because he had to much to drink he spent the night. We had sex that night and in the morning. I understand that was not my best judgement and I accept that. We went to luch and then I went to train staion to head home. He called me about 20min later making sure I got to the train station ok,a dn we talked for a bit-nice conversation. Then I sent him a text when I got home to tell him I made it safely, he relpyed "glad you made it home safely and had a great time " . That is it??? Have not herd from him since has been about 5 days?

I just ended a long term realtionship couple of months ago. And I really liked this guy. But I do not know what to do, my brain says forget about him. But I do kinda like him and would like to see him agin???:(

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Well with so many mixed messages I can understand why you would have a hard time trying to figure it out. See guys are pretty simple, if they want it they try to get it. I understand the fact that you "kinda like him" but in my eyes there are not very many stories I would accept for not making contact in 5 days.

 

That behavior says that 'I have no respect for you' and if I were you I wouldn't tolerate it. Move on to a guy that treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

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