Keeps Delaying Moving - Maybe someone has had something similar

[CaliMan]

Met in November while she was in my area for work, both fell in love with each other, when she went back planned that she would move here. Got everything set up, place for us to live, cars, money etc.

 

Ever since everything has been right for her to move, she has set dates that she will be moving and continuously delayed them. I've heard every reason.

 

-Not packed yet

-Have to say goodbye to people

-Last time to do xxx

-Doctor's appointments

etc etc etc

 

She's delayed it like 8 times I think. I don't know why I'm still around but I love her.

 

I'm 21, she's 20.

 

We have spoken on the phone everyday since the end of november for between 1/2 hour to say 6 hours on a given day. I have gone to visit her probly about 7 times, she has visited me twice.

 

When I mention that I'm coming up to visit her, she tells me not to and says we should save money etc etc but I still do anyway and she always picks me up from the airport and we have a tremendous time together and she often cries when she takes me back to go away.

 

After all the delays, she still rings me all the time, we tell each other we love each other. It's not like she delays it and bars me. She delays it but then loves me, possibly even more.

 

She moved from where she was living with friends to her parents place with the intention of spending a bit of time with them before she moved but her family is against her moving so she has been stuck there doing what they want her to do.

 

I've tried to brake up with her twice because of the delays and she ends up getting upset and so do I and we don't brake up.

 

I don't know what to do. It's like we love each other and miss each other. She has asked me to move there but I've said it's a bit crook considering I've done everything here that she asked for for her to move here.

 

We have argued a lot about her delaying it with just coming to the conclusion that she will be moving on such and such a date which is where we are at again now but what do I do if she doesn't move? I don't want to brake up with her but what am I supposed to do if we are continuously seperated.