alexa137 Posted February 26, 2007 Posted February 26, 2007 how can you have NO CONTACT with ex when you live together!!mine told me he need time apart last friday its been 10 days and he still comes in and out of the house--well we rented it together--he says hes moving thurs--this is so dreadful i cry so much i cant even see and have a big headache! we kinda ignore each other we had an arguement this morning and after i went 5 days without bringing up anything that had to do with us--im am trying my best to gt along with him i love him so much he my first love! the hard thing is when we talk he always brings up he loves me alot etc....then why wont he give me another chance? i just want to crawl into a hole and sleep for a long time
norajane Posted February 26, 2007 Posted February 26, 2007 Do you have a family member or friend you can stay with (or a couple different friends) until Thursday? Otherwise, the only thing I can think of is to be really busy and stay out of the house, or hole up in your room as much as possible when he is there.
roxy_1980 Posted February 26, 2007 Posted February 26, 2007 If he claims to be moving on thursday, he needs to find a place to stay til then. If he says he's moving that means he's leaving you the current apartment/house and that means that he no longer lives there. He needs to stay with friends or family for 3 days. He broke it off, he's moving out, he needs to leave. Don't leave yourself. If necessary, inform him that he needs to leave, then have the locks changed. Only let him back in on thursday to move his stuff. No contact does not work with someone you live with.
Author alexa137 Posted February 26, 2007 Author Posted February 26, 2007 i dont know its so very confusing and stressful--ive tried to hard--im not going to get into to(you can ready other post i started last week title-boyfriend wants time apart) but he stays out most of the day from like 8am-9pm on weekends and during the week when he works from 7-3, then 4-9pm the past week, unfortunately i work one of my jobs at home so i am on the computer 4-5 hours a day and then i only have my parents as family and i'm not getting along with them very well right now and i like to be alone when depressed--no friends-just one and she is out of town busy all the time etc....havent seen her in months! so its just my 10 yr old daughter and me-and i know this is bad to say but i dont even like doing anything with her either--everyone bugging me right now!i actually took a personal day from 2nd job to start putting stuff in storage from the basement-ive also threw away 20 or bags just so i dont have to carry to new apartment! i just dont know how long i should wait--i told him last night when he tried to get in bed with me(guess the couch is uncomfortable since hes been in my cozy bed for 9 months!) i told him no way! you cant do this to me you cant lay beside me! he said that a reason why he doesnt want to me with me! i told forget i give up anyways-i know he says things sometimes he doesnt mean--i do to! he has admitted it before--then this morning before he went to work he pulled back the covers from my face and said you can hate me but i love you! i cant believe it that just makes it worse-because i dont understand! how can you love someone for a year and then just from one mistake and ive changed not forgive and forget and try again--i just dont how much time i should give him to decide--i just want to go far away all myself and hide
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