Guest Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 I got into a blow out with my boyfriend last night after a night of drinking. I told him I was thinking about leaving him. He called me some really bad names and I said things I didn't mean. This morning when he left for work I tried to applogize and he didn't want anything to do with me. I asked him if he wanted me to leave and he said it is my choice and if I want to leave to do so before he gets home from work tonight. I don't want to leave him. I want to talk to him. He has not called me all day. What should I do?? Should I call him at work? Should I just stay and wait until he gets home from work? I really love him and I am so scared. What do I do??
Limerent Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 Rats...I wish I would have seen this earlier, for I would have told you to absolutely pack your stuff and leave before he came back. My reasons for giving you this advice is as follows: I told him I was thinking about leaving him. He called me some really bad names and I said things I didn't mean. This morning when he left for work I tried to applogize and he didn't want anything to do with me. and probably the most telling: I asked him if he wanted me to leave and he said it is my choice and if I want to leave to do so before he gets home from work tonight. He didnt seem to put up much of a fight as far as you leaving, even recommending when you do it, and that in and of itself was cowardly as well...asking you to do it before he gets home. I do hope you made the right desicion to leave. Dont worry about if it was the right choice or not. Something tells me that if you were really important to him, and it mattered, he will be back. He wouldnt let it go so easily.
dropdeadlegs Posted February 28, 2007 Posted February 28, 2007 I was on this site all evening yesterday and this is the first I saw of your post. If you want to get your posts online quicker you need to register. Guest posts are caught in a holding pattern and require moderator approval before being put in the forum. Registered users posts are put online immediately. I suppose the decision has already been made since you posted 3 days ago, but registering will help you in the future. Hope the outcome was what you wanted. I would have asked for some specific info as to the nature of the fight in order to provide good advice. There was not enough info to help you based on what I read. Drunken fights are not always black and white situations, although I do think they are telling in many ways.
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