samsungxoxo Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Ok when I mean caught red-handed, I'm referring to straight out seeing your SO with your own eyes either screwing, fonding, kissing, doing anything sexual or romantic with someone else (yea that's right, you walk in on them and you get to see everything). I heard many stories of the guys getting caught easily in the middle of the act but hardly any stories of the girl getting caught. From what I'm reading, girls tend to only get caught in lies or by leaving open messages, but never in the act. Is it that men make it soo obvious. Boy what an embarrassment if you catch them doing it in your own house and own your own bed.
mopar crazy Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 I'm the opposite on hearing the stories. I hear more women getting busted by their H/SO than I do men getting caught. However, my WH's xOW caught her BF (she was pregnant w/ his child) w/ his OW. This was years b4 her A started w/ my H. She did end up M this guy b/c of their child but D about 8 months later to be w/ my H.
Sup Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 There was a guy in here not too long ago who had caught his wife on top of another man, she said she was drunk, like that makes it any better. I don't know what happened to him.
Author samsungxoxo Posted February 26, 2007 Author Posted February 26, 2007 There was a guy in here not too long ago who had caught his wife on top of another man, she said she was drunk, like that makes it any better. I don't know what happened to him. Oh yea, I remember that post, LOL, silly me. What an excuse "Oh but I was drunk". I hope he filed for divorce. As for those that are cheating, yes big time selfish. But if you plan to keep doing it and obviously don't want your SO to find out, then don't leave any written message or set up another password/e-mail and offcourse at home is the worst place to cheat (you never know at what exact time your SO will come) and well don't act defensive or start small arguments, gestures is one way to make it look suspicious. Lasly be prepared for all the responses you will tell your partner and make sure NO ONE that knows your partner sees you doing it. But the the real solution would be simply to walk away and tell them it's over, why the need to bring a third party into you and your SO's problem.
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