cr8sea Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 My bf and I broke up in good terms, were we, after deciding to break up, kept talking about other things like nothing happened. We decided to keep talking and get to know each other as friends, and maybe later, much later when we're both ready, give it another try. Ive texted him a few times since the break up. But i still have to go to his place to get my stuff and give him back his things. I cant bear the thought of going to his place, and see his family, whom ive gotten close with. Im not sure when will i be able to go get my stuff without breaking down, and im even considering leaving it there, where he can do whatever he wants with it. Should i suck it up and go? or leave it and just do NC from now on til im feeling better about this? I really wanted to try to be friends, but i just cant understand why this is happening, and, although we've texted back and forth, I cant hear him or see him cuz i know ill break down. What should i do!?! I also feel like he has been influences by his friend and will regret this decision sooner or later, so im afraid of what would happen if we see each other again. Or worse, that i see he really wanted this break up, and i was just creating false hope in my head Anyone has any advice??? please???????
Cuepid Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Go and get your things. Don't worry about whether he'll regret this decision or not. In fact, go there and smile and act happy. Wish him good luck and tell him to call you if he needs anything.
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