ratingsguy Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 I'm on three weeks of NC today. I decided to go out to lunch with a friend of mine. He picked a diner that was less than a mile from where my MW lives. I'm pretty sure that she's out of town this weekend, so I didn't say anything and we went there. Wouldn't you know it... in the booth right next to ours was my MW's 18 year old son and his girlfriend! I only know what he looks like from the pictures I've seen. He doesn't know anything about me or who I am... so to him I was just a stranger. I wasn't even sure it was him, but I knew he had an unusual name, and when his girlfriend addressed him by his name, I knew it was definately him. There were no dramatic moments, but it was a little uncomfortable for me. It also got me to thinking about my MW, which I hadn't been doing as much of lately. After I left the diner, and after I went bowling with my buddy, I did drive by her house. I'm not sure why, but I did. Strangely after that whole episode I didn't get emotional. I guess this means I'm moving on. Slowly, but I'm moving on. NC is helping, but I still do miss her.
Jinxx Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 i guess that would be awkward. But you got through it. You'll have good days and bad days.
kymberann Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 RG, Sometimes you need these moments to see how you are really dealing with the situation. I bet it would have been worse had the son known you, but maybe not. Glad to see you got out and stayed busy! Three weeks already! Yes you ARE moving on, you have no other choice but to! Best to you!
oyster Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 well it could be worst, could had been her ex-husband:p seriously, one day, I was going for late dinner in my area with 2 friends after we worked on the house renovation, guess who I saw? MW and her hubby in their car. Good thing I change restaurant because my gut feeling told me they might be in the restaurant my friends wanted to go. Which later was confirmed. This would be a priceless moment to meet the abusive prick.
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