glitzy55 Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I had plans with this guy I met online last weekend. Anyway we spoke a few times etc..and he wanted to hang out rather quickly. I canceled the day of ..I texted him actually and I put in the text if he wanted to hang out the follwing night. Well i didnt hear back from him so i figured he got pissed or watever. Anyway 4 days later he leaves me a message saying sorry he hadnt gotten back to me and to call him and let him know if im still interested in meeting. Did he wait so long to call just to seem like he had other things going on.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 hmm..i guess my bias is getting in the way here. in my experience, meeting guys online has never been a good idea. i've only met 2 and they were the biggest idiots and losers i have ever met. i would try to maybe talk to him on the phone for awhile and see what happens. rushing into meeting someone u just know on the internet usually doesnt turn out to well. if u are inclined to meet him, proceed with caution. but to answer ur question: he probably waited to highten the excitement and not seem like he's pushing u. he might have thought u got cold feet about meeting and thats why u cancelled. so he might just be trying to give u a little space and then see if ur still interested. Link to post Share on other sites
ZakattackZzZ Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 no no no dont its very dangerouse Link to post Share on other sites
Author glitzy55 Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 hmm..i guess my bias is getting in the way here. in my experience, meeting guys online has never been a good idea. i've only met 2 and they were the biggest idiots and losers i have ever met. i would try to maybe talk to him on the phone for awhile and see what happens. rushing into meeting someone u just know on the internet usually doesnt turn out to well. if u are inclined to meet him, proceed with caution. but to answer ur question: he probably waited to highten the excitement and not seem like he's pushing u. he might have thought u got cold feet about meeting and thats why u cancelled. so he might just be trying to give u a little space and then see if ur still interested. well yea..its from a dating website so its not that im afraid to meet him. We did speak on the phone alreadya few times before we were gonna meet so yea maybe he does think I got cold feet. Link to post Share on other sites
Pretty Fly Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 rushing into meeting someone u just know on the internet usually doesnt turn out to well. if u are inclined to meet him, proceed with caution. What's the difference between this and getting chatting to someone in a bar/coffee shop/supermarket/etc and arranging to meet for a chat again some time in the future? Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 meeting someone in person vs. the internet is A LOT different. anyone on the internet can tell u anything about themself (physical attributes, age, ect.), and u wouldnt know any different. granted u dont know someone in person that well that u first meet, but at least u know who they are, what they look like, how old they are. Link to post Share on other sites
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