glitzy55 Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 does that mean they are intimidated by u. I'm attrractive, I notice guys look at me all the time but very few approach me. I notice that many guys act totally different around me then around other girls. For example..my next door neighbor..I 've caught him many times peaking out his window at me. Thing is when I've sat next to him at a block party we had he said about 2 words then got up and talked with his buddies. Some of my new coworkers who are guys are very chatty with another female co worker but with me they all seem to be pretty quiet. Do they all find me that unattractive lol or are they intimiated..and I hate using that word lol.
Topper Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Glitz be truthful here. are you very attractive? Now do you play up that asset? You may in fact be sending out the "look but don't touch" vibe. I'm not saying you are but you could be doing just that.
Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 Are you relying on the guy to drive and keep up the conversation? If you're not creating the positive responses to keep the conversation going, it can create that effect. Don't forget how nerve-wracking it can be for the guy to approach you first.
Author glitzy55 Posted February 24, 2007 Author Posted February 24, 2007 Are you relying on the guy to drive and keep up the conversation? If you're not creating the positive responses to keep the conversation going, it can create that effect. Don't forget how nerve-wracking it can be for the guy to approach you first. well yea but I'm just talking about like say my new coworkers..Im not expecting them to be like hounding on me or anything but lol they just seem shyer around me u know.
Ariadne Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 Some of my new coworkers who are guys are very chatty with another female co worker but with me they all seem to be pretty quiet. Do they all find me that unattractive lol or are they intimiated.. How would I know. Ariadne
Author glitzy55 Posted February 24, 2007 Author Posted February 24, 2007 Some of my new coworkers who are guys are very chatty with another female co worker but with me they all seem to be pretty quiet. Do they all find me that unattractive lol or are they intimiated.. How would I know. Ariadne thanks oh soo much for the response
Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 well yea but I'm just talking about like say my new coworkers..Im not expecting them to be like hounding on me or anything but lol they just seem shyer around me u know. Are you shy when you're with people you don't know? For example, a stranger says something to you while you're waiting in a lineup such as "this lineup is so slow" and it's an attractive man. Do you: a) look at him and smile but don't say anything; b) look at him, smile and return something funny; c) look at him like he's a retard and who the hell are you; d) ignore him.
Author glitzy55 Posted February 24, 2007 Author Posted February 24, 2007 Are you shy when you're with people you don't know? For example, a stranger says something to you while you're waiting in a lineup such as "this lineup is so slow" and it's an attractive man. Do you: a) look at him and smile but don't say anything; b) look at him, smile and return something funny; c) look at him like he's a retard and who the hell are you; d) ignore him. depends either a or b..but i get what ure saying.
Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 depends either a or b..but i get what ure saying. Cool, then you're on the right path. If you're friendly with someone else and you can make them laugh, they will respond in a positive manner too. It creates a nice synergy. Good luck.
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