pricillia Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 So after I found out that he was Married there was a big blow out he was the one doing all the yelling, I just listened It ended with him telling me to loose his number, I said fine as long as you loose my number. I waited a day then I called him hoping that his voice mail would pick up and it did and I just left a peace message as we work in the same building and I have to see him and I thought that it would be for the best. He called me an hour later and did not answer and he stated that he wished I would call back. I did not he kept on calling. He tried to explain himself and said that he did it because he felt a connection with me and that he cares for me. Now he calls me all the time, I don't call him he tells me that I am his sweetheart, and that he loves me and that he has nothing to hide from me when I asked him how many children he had he still lied he told me that he has one, I know that he has more but he won't tell me. Why continue the lie??? At first I thought that he was being sweet because he thought I may say something to his wife, but I hate drama...so I would just keep it to myself. He tells me I am his sweet heart, calls me at least three times a day. I was really into this man but now it is all complicated now that I know he is a MM because I don't want to be the other woman I need to take my own advice. He even asks me if I am seeing someone else when he is the one that is married. I have a headache! This isn't doing me any good whatsoever.
Mz. Pixie Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 Change your home and cell numbers. When he calls tell him "Go home and work on your marriage" He wants a piece of tail outside his marriage. You don't want to be the OW. Why would you want to settle for scraps?? You can be nice about it but if he keeps calling after you tell him not to you may need to report him to your supervisors. You can at least threaten it. If you don't cut off contact with him you'll get weaker by the minute. I can tell. Don't talk to him anymore.
Author pricillia Posted September 8, 2006 Author Posted September 8, 2006 no I really don't want to be the other woman you are right about that! Now I really have a headache. I am shutting my cell phone off tonight!
whichwayisup Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 You tell him if he calls you again, you'll tell his wife that he's bothering you. That ought to make him stop in his tracks. Be strong and continue ignoring him. Lose his number, email and cell #.
Author pricillia Posted September 8, 2006 Author Posted September 8, 2006 I know I thought of that. But honestly why do men do this are they that unhappy with thier marriage??? The need to get some extra on the side or are they really looking for something else??? Some people say men cheat because they can, but it is a choice!
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