jhurtinct Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 I really need to just vent. He told me we are finished there is no more talking about it I will never chang, because of coase its my fault. Now I'm stuck living here in his house with all my pets and our son, and I need to figure out how to deal with it. It should be easy right? We haven't had sex or anykind of affection in months, there is no conversation, so what will really be different? I will have to watch him walk out the door everytime he leaves and wonder where he's going what he's doing and with who? That's all I can figure will be different, that's what I need to learn to deal with. Can anyone tell me of a situation in which you dealt with this or can you give me some advice on how to deal with it?
SuperMonk Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Well gotta break it to you, when a guy says he is finished with you, a man's word is mostly bond. With that and no affection/sex for months is a clear indication he is not into you. Uh.. I don't have much experience in divorces or whatever position you are in now but I would get a lawyer or at least a mediator to help settle future disputes which will involve your finances/child.
Author jhurtinct Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 He keeps doing this to me we've been together 7yrs now our son is 4. We have lived together alost the whole time minus a few months here and there. Everytime he wants to be single he leaves me, weeks later or after I start going out also he wants me back. This time he told me I could stay as long I wanted. I think he just wants to avoid moving us again. The part that is sick is I still hope he comes back, its like an addiction I don't want to be with out. WHY???????
Author jhurtinct Posted April 23, 2006 Author Posted April 23, 2006 here goes 11:00 pm he just left all dressed up in new clothes and new colonge. I made a funny funny noise and asked did you spray deodorant in the bathroom, he smerked and said yes. It killed me where's he going now? with who? and what did I ever do in life to end up here. This is killing me I'm dying inside right now.
MadDog Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 You should probably move out and start a new life without him. That way you don't have to see him go out to hang out with women every weekend.
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