littlepiggy1 Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 It's now been almost two months since my ex and I broke up. My ex and I have kept in touch a bit. Talked on the phone about once a week or so. I haven't seen her in awhile (she's on vacation at the moment) although she still has some of my stuff, so I guess I'll to collect that. Lately I've been feeling pretty damn good. Better than I have in quite awhile. The weather is partly to blame I think. It's been warm and sunny... bound to put anyone in a good mood. I've also been thinking about dating again. It's weird because even just two weeks ago, I was still missing my ex and the idea of dating felt like "cheating" (even tho we'd broken up). But now, for whatever reason, those feelings have gone and I kind of want to meet some new people. I even hopped on the online dating service where I met my ex and damn! There's more girls on there than I remember. Lots of really cute ones, too. So while I feel like I want to take the plunge, I also think I should wait. Maybe give myself a little more time to see if this feeling holds or if I still haven't gotten over my ex. Plus, I'm in the middle of exams so it might not be the best time for dating. I also think it's going to be weird with my ex. We'd talked about remaining friends and honestly, I didn't think I'd feel like dating again so soon. I'm not ready to hop into another relationship per-say, but just go out and meet some other people. But I imagine that that could f*** up any chance of friendship for us, if she discovered I was going out with other people. Maybe I'm just being a bit paranoid, but she always was pretty insecure. Granted, I don't owe her anything at this point. She's free to go on with her life and I'm free to go on with mine.
tikigods Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 One of the reasons why I think people shouldn't remain friends after breaking up is cause in the end it almost always causes more drama then not when it comes back to the realm of dating. Personally I would say date who you want to date, and heck you don't even have to tell her you are dating. Its time you start living your life for you
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