banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Ok! i think i will be able to approach the girl, i want know how i should react, if she regects me, Should i argue or just say nothing, or what? Im 14 and have never been regected? so i dont know what to do if i get regected..?
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 Is any1 gonna give some advice, i gotta go to bed soon:love: ......?
d'Arthez Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Never argue, if you get rejected. It is pointless, and she would have made her mind up already. Take it as a young man, and walk away...
Lil Honey Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 You don't ever have to argue if someone doesn't accept your advancements. It is a personal choice if someone wants your lips in/on their face. This may sound crazy, but if you are so unsure about kissing her, then just ASK her if it's okay. Not wanting to be kissed could stem from any number of reasons, so don't take it so personally. At 14, you are in a learning stage. She might not feel the time is right, she may not want to take your friendship any further at that time or at all or she might think other things are more important. Have you even been to the point of holding her hand or doing other little special things with her? Or are you planning on skipping the courtship and going right to whatever you are going to?
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 Yeah last time we where together i asked her if she wants to play "21"(its a card Game) she said yes and then after a minete she sneaks up beside me and trys to look at my cards LOL! and then we just stair into each others eyes and we smile, is that a good sign that she likes me.....?
JS17 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 That's so cute She might be interested, it's a good sign but there are no guarantees. I agree with everyone else, don't argue if you get rejected. You're 14, you may not have been rejected yet but you will one day. I say better to get rejected for the first time now than when you're say, oh, 27 You'll figure out how to handle it and you're young enough and not serious enough that you'll bounce back quickly. Good luck:)
Author banjesse Posted October 7, 2005 Author Posted October 7, 2005 OK! Thanx, she is cuming over today....??????? :love: :love: :love:
Author banjesse Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 She didnt cum over cuz i was lucky enough to be in hospital (pancreatitis, look it up to hard to explain)
d'Arthez Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 Sorry to hear that. But don't lose your resolve, and ask the next time you have the opportunity.
Lil Honey Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Something tells me that she was "coming" over . . .
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