RobertoPNW Posted April 30, 2004 Posted April 30, 2004 It was 5 months ago that I suffered the worst relationship loss of my life. I felt worthless and alone. It seemed that I would never in my life find another woman who could be as amazing. I truly thought I had missed my chance at the "one". Let me tell you something...I have now found someone even BETTER. This woman is so much more wonderful to me, she values and adores me. She doesn't seek what I have to offer, like the other dufus was doing. She doesn't judge me, like the other one did without compassion. I only thought I had the "one", now I know I have the "one"....and I will make sure she feels the same for me. Everyone...keep your chin up...it will happen for you! Happy searching to all !!
quankanne Posted May 1, 2004 Posted May 1, 2004 I have now found someone even BETTER YES!!!! *does a victory dance* this is what our broken-hearted compadres need to hear: that even though you are feeling pretty damned crappy about a love affair gone wrong, don't give up because someone fine will come along to help you realize a truer definition of the love you're meant to have. back to my dance of celebration, Roberto ... this is among the happiest news I've heard today!!! quank
Author RobertoPNW Posted May 1, 2004 Author Posted May 1, 2004 "Never, ever give up" - Winston Churchhill
Author RobertoPNW Posted May 3, 2004 Author Posted May 3, 2004 Originally posted by shellen hmmm maybe some ppl are jus destined to be alone? It doesn't have to be that way...I found my special someone thru an online dating service. I was quite active in my search. Don't give up.
Midnight Magic Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 I find that when you are looking and looking for love and a relationship, this is when you do not find it, but when you are not looking then you find it. It took me years to find someone that was not abusive and finally I have found the one. It will happen...
Author RobertoPNW Posted May 5, 2004 Author Posted May 5, 2004 Originally posted by Midnight Magic I find that when you are looking and looking for love and a relationship, this is when you do not find it, but when you are not looking then you find it. It took me years to find someone that was not abusive and finally I have found the one. It will happen... That may be true alot of times...but I was looking for someone who was looking for me. And hey! there she was! We found each other! wooohooo !!
Author RobertoPNW Posted August 2, 2004 Author Posted August 2, 2004 Hey all !! Things just get better all the time with Christina. We can't, and don't want to, imagine being without each other. We both have been thru difficult relationships and can really appreciate each other. I know she is ready for me, and I for her. This last weekend I purchased the engagement ring. First time in my life that I have done this. Now, I am planning and waiting for the right moment to propose. I think back to my times of despair this last winter. How I thought I would never again experience joy. Now, I am living the ultimate joy. I look forward to a lifetime bond with this wonderful person who would walk side by side with me. Guys and gals...if your partner won't or can't have this type of relationship with you then don't worry. There is someone out there who can, and is ready for you.
Author RobertoPNW Posted January 15, 2005 Author Posted January 15, 2005 Well I'm marrying Christina on February 12. We are so excited and can't wait to start our new life together. All the suffering I've ever experienced does not compare to the joy I feel now. It feels like my own personal miracle to be where I am with her. A while ago I told her that I don't want to scare her away by smothering her with too much love. She said "omg...I didn't want to scare YOU away by smothering you with too much love!" cute huh? God knows I love this woman, and I'm gonna prove it to her every day, for the rest of my life. Now...hmmm....how to write my wedding vows?......................................
Anais Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Congratulations! Wish you both good luck. She is very beautiful! Cannot help with vows. We just said I do.
Adunaphel Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Congratulations!!!! Thanks for sharing this great news. Oh, and lovely pic. Christina is not only a great girl, she's also very beautiful!
djones Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Congrads to you two!! I so glad to read on this post site an nice story, it made me real happy to read that Roberto. Best of luck to you and Christina.....hehe its funny my girl that I am with now has the same name as yours....I hope we have the same luck as you guys.....so far its been a dream for us .....take care
seductress989 Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 Hey Roberto, Congrats! I am in the same boat myself. I'm in the beginning of something wonderful. I felt that I would never find anyone who was better than my ex, and I did! I truly did....... So I advise everyone to never give up and continue living life at it's best until you find someone or someone finds you!
Author RobertoPNW Posted January 18, 2005 Author Posted January 18, 2005 Originally posted by seductress989 So I advise everyone to never give up and continue living life at it's best until you find someone or someone finds you! Yes, exactly. I mean...what if I had been sitting around and moping instead of being online when I met my fiance? She had just been browsing on singleparentmeet.com, then decided to see who was online. She read my profile and was impressed with what I had to say in regard to relationships. She decided to contact me and from there it was a fabulous online romance that developed into what we have now. She found me and she allowed me to find her as well. It's been the best for the both of us. Please, everyone, keep trying. Don't waste your time thinking about what could have been. Instead...look forward to what will be, and it will be if YOU want it.
Author RobertoPNW Posted December 6, 2005 Author Posted December 6, 2005 Hey gang, I just wanted to share a pic of my family: We have been married since January 28, 2005.
Outcast Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Congratulations, Roberto! So nice of you to come back to tell about your happy ending!
omegaRED Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Very happy for you man. Congrats, you look like a happy family! All the best to all of you in the future.
CaliGuy Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Congrats to you man, that is great news. I hope EVERYONE here on Love Shack has the kind of success you have had!
scobro Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 See you on the separation and divorce section in 2007!! Oh Im just kidding I gotta be smartass no one else said it.Congrats to you both.Wow online dating now married never would have thought it.
Just Visiting Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I remember reading this thread from when it was started. Good to see that things turned out great for you. Gives us hope that life can and will go on.
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