naomii Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 (edited) Do guys ever change how they feel about a girl? As in, this guy and i were "friends with benefits" for over a year. All he wanted to do was drink, party and have sex. Then, after seeing eachother off and on the past year, i decided to end our FWB because we no longer wanted the same thing, i wanted a relationship, he wanted to drink and sleep around. A few weeks later, he tells me he quit drinking and wants to get to know me better. Hes been staying in contact with me every day, when before id go days without hearing from him. Were slowly learning more about eachother without sex. I just dont understand why he wants to "see where things could go with us" after all this time of me wanting to be with him and him not wanting to be with me. So do guys really change their minds like that? I kind of dont know what to think. Ive ended it several times this year and hed always come back, and wed go back to being FWB, but this is the first time hes actually put in effort to make us into something more. Edited January 11, 2012 by naomii
whichwayisup Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 You know this guy, we don't. Also, don't lump ALL guys together and how they act with the FWB thing. He may have realized he has some feelings for you and wants to see how it progresses. You say he's been making more effort, getting to know you and been in contact daily.. Enjoy it and give him the benefit of doubt, trust his words and his actions. So far they seem to be matching.. Right?
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