What is she doing? Talking to her previous ex.. I get mad. She gets mad.

[lover4721]

Alright well.. dated for 2 years.

 

I guess I wasn't accepting her, she said. Before she said that, she said she needed a break but it didn't mean we were over.

 

Then she met this kid. They kissed. I broke up with her once I found out. She removed me from Facebook Relationship.

She said we weren't together, and it wasn't cheating.

 

They dated for a month and a half. She said he got mad with drugs and left while she could.

 

She constantly said I was a mistake and she spent almost 2 years on my ass.

Her ex constantly threatened me left and right, but being who I am, I wasn't threatened.

 

For about 1 week and a half - She has begged me to take her back. I asked her out a few times, just so I can start getting comfortable around her. She didn't know if we were dating or not, so it seemed she was holding me off for someone else. Kinda sounds like a high school relationship.

 

Then I noticed her and her ex started to talk.. I get mad because I can't trust her.. then she gets mad at me because I'm mad at her because I cannot trust her. I know for a fact I'm getting played again..

 

I texted her like saying "I can't trust you, can you show me that I can? I don't text a hundred different girls, I'm much more loyal."

 

She kinda said "This needs to stop, because no one deserves it. Yes, him and I hangout we talk occasionally, but just as friends. Please give me a chance to prove it to you?(that she still loves me and she changed) I know for all reasons you shouldn't trust me, but please try to because I don't deserve this, no one does."

 

So basically, what do I do?

Edited December 3, 2011 by lover4721

[lover4721]

Okay, when should I tell her that?

 

Not sure if I should tell her now because I was thinking, when we dated, she didn't talk to anyone - because I was all she needed..

 

So maybe if we get back together, she won't talk to him.

 

I don't want to say that now because it'll make **** worse.

[lover4721]

Yeah, I do know what you're talking about..

 

 

Maybe when we talk in person - I'll tell her that, is that a good idea?

[lover4721]

Alright

 

well it got into a deeper situation.

 

I have a friend has 2 kids.

Well my ex said I should have sex with my friend because she needs another kid.

 

My friend asked me what was wrong, 2 nights ago, and I told her what my ex said.

And she told my ex off.

Now my ex is mad at me because I opened my mouth. But it's 100% fine when my ex tells her ex about me, and he yells at me.

Seriously, we are a wreck and we need to hangout because this isn't getting far through text messages.