stab17 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 (edited) My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday after a 2 and a half year relationship.. she's 22, I'm 21 Now before this, she wanted a break claiming that she just doesn't have the time to give me the attention I need/want. And also a trust issue because she went out for coffee with a co-worker and I was uneasy about it even when she told me the night before. She wanted to speak with each other still during this break so maybe we will get better at communicating. But I said if you want a break, I want to give you space. 2 days later, she calls me and wanted to see each other in person. that's when my heart dropped.... when she wanted to break up.... my heart was so broken. She was saying how she doesn't see us working out and the farthest she could see us going was moving in together. She said she can't be that person I expect her to be... She said she wants to move out only for herself (because I been asking her if I found a job in another city, would she move with me). She still claims she loves me and wasn't unhappy with me. I asked her if it was because of the trust thing, she said no... She asked me where I saw us going in 5 years. I answered with really what was in my mind... Hopefully I'd be done school and have a great job, and I was really looking forward to putting a ring on your finger... then she bursted out crying - said she's sorry. So i said I need to pick up my stuff from her house the day of because I wanted to cut all ties because it would hurt me so much to be friends. Drove her back to her house and I asked if I should come in to grab my stuff or stay out in my car. "She said I don't know. I didn't expect you to cut all ties with me, and I was hoping I'd have time to gather your things and just give it to you another day." So I said just call me or text me when you want to do that. I left. She still hasn't deleted me as her boyfriend on Facebook, and I don't know if she wants me to try and chase her or give her the space she needs for now. I really don't know what is wrong with our relationship at this point but there was no lead-up to this break-up. I still love her she still loves me. I want to have a second chance. I really don't know if I should give her space or let her know what is really in my mind. I know she's still busy with final exams coming up and stuff, but how I'm feeling is so bad that I can't even get up in the morning. I really feel like she is the one.. please don't give me the find another girl solution. It really breaks my heart even more because I really didn't think I did her wrong. Any advice or thoughts? Please. Did I mess it up by not talking with her during the break? Sorry if my story doesn't make sense Edited November 30, 2011 by stab17
Author stab17 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 I would really like some advice, please =(
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