twinkles Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0bsd4l_QqM&feature=related I hope these clips can help anyone hurting to move on.
yello243 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 great advice thanks for posting Made me feel a lot better and really put some things in perspective these are obstacles that will help us find our way to something so much better later on in life. These are short life lessons that makes us stronger.
lolita jade Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Absolutely hilariously funny as well as educational. Makes me think I am not putting up with any s**t in future relationships too. We will all experts in relatationships and life by the time we have taken all advise on LS.
Author twinkles Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 missed that one Hope you are feeling good today Lolita.
Author twinkles Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 Feeling good but ..screwed up with the ex last night...it's much easier for no contact when you don't have to work with the person.
lolita jade Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Poor you. I can understand it must be hard, especially if anger creeps in on your behalf. Or even thinking you can be adult and talk to them and they talk to you like shyte even though you haven't said anything wrong. (Eggshells!!) Is there any way you can find new job? I know you prbably think why should you but life is too short.
sunflower11 Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 (edited) I liked the part about..theres people who you are only supposed to be with for a season. I always think of my partners as long term-marriage type of people and when things end I have the hardest time just letting go and just being ok with the experience.. I had to edit cause I watched the second video and it made me smile thank you twinkles! I have bookmarked these to watch them when I am feeling down... Edited November 27, 2011 by sunflower11
Author twinkles Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 Not to worry Lolita..i don't want to post everything that happened but boy did things play out well. An old close friend came by the job and was literally standing 6 inches from my face talking with me as the ex was watching (didn't notice right away)then the old friend gave me a kiss actually two ooh the arrows were shooting out of the ex's eyes. The ex didn't know we were just really close friends so I can imagine what was going through the ex's mind. I didn't feel the need to explain anything. It just felt nice to get some much needed validation from another man. My mistake was calling the ex when I got home let a message asking if we could talk...he didn't call back. Regardless, I have to admit that it was nice to see him jealous.
lolita jade Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I would do that a lot. Get on top of situ, then contact him and then get knocked back. Don't get tempted again. I learnt hard way.
Author twinkles Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 Lesson learned. I feel ok with how it all played out. Thanks Lolita
LostJustLost Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 "If somebody want to walk out of your life.. Let Them Go." God I can not wait for my heart to understand and agree with that. Thank you for the links, I'll be playing them every day.
lolita jade Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Good for you Twinkles. When you turn your brain to being positive and thinking outside the box you will feel happy. Wallowing in sorrow will keep you unhappy. I have experience of this. Try looking at the positive threads instead of the negative ones just for one day and see how you feel. Get out there and enjoy life
SelfCentered Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Just found this. Brilliant. Fantastic advice. Sending these links to a few friends!
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