DannyT27 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 (edited) Well jus found my ex of 3 weeks is already in a relationship with someone 10 yrs older... We was together 5.5 yrs I dnt believe it.. Talk about takin the piss, before me she was in a 5 yr relationship then finished and a month later got with me and stayed with me for 5 yrs and finished it 3 wks ago and now got with him... I see a pattern what a ****ing BITCH!! Edited November 19, 2011 by DannyT27
Von Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Dude that is messed up. You have to wonder how on earth people could be like that, but it happens all the time. Its all these people with grass is greener syndrome screwing up healthy people. Im sorry that happened, my ex left me for her ex so I know how it feels. We just have to let them go and not stoop to their level. The new guy is a rebound as well and will also get screwed over eventually. You have to put more value in yourself to avoid being sucked in to these kinds of women that use people up. Definitely dont date someone fresh out of a relationship. I think these are usually doomed to failure. We just sometimes dont pay attention to the truth because we want what the women is offering. Time to rebuild your confidence and work on amy issues you may think you have. Let this one go so a loyal better one will come
Author DannyT27 Posted November 20, 2011 Author Posted November 20, 2011 Thanks von Im trying to let go but it's so hard as it's been less than a month, I feel so humilliated it's untrue.... I knw this won't last but it could very well be 5 yrs before it's over lol, I knw I'm worth much more just wish I could switch my feelings off. If I was to bump into her new fella I thk I'd wish him the best of luck lol... The thing I'd this girl has never been the dumpee in her life she needs a taste of her own medicne! :-p
Von Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Hey its only been like 2 weeks for me lol. I have recovered really well though, I just realized that Im of high value, I did everything right in our relationship I could, and that I didnt deserve it and it was her loss. Her ex is a loser with no job, no car, and lives with his mom. But his parents and him likely put a ton of pressure on her to get back with him, not to mention all of her emotions after having the baby and our really small issues sealed the deal. Ive been in NC ever since. But I prayed and realized Im a great guy and someone will find me eventually who wont run from me under any circumstance. I deserve someone who is dedicated to happy healthy relationship with me. Plus, real strong men domt get phased by breakups, they just let them go figure out the grass isnt always greener and move on to the next one. Think about that
Mcnulty Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 I feel for you mate. Mine stopped contacting me and 2 weeks later was in a rel ...with my friend!!! No contact since and there wont be any...screw her and I hope that karma takes it's course. I like that phrase..."real men don't get phased by break ups"..seriously, bit inspiring that is, so I'm gonna think that today...thanks.
Author DannyT27 Posted November 20, 2011 Author Posted November 20, 2011 Thanks ...i just get the impression she can't cope on her own, that's why she always straight into another relationship. She hasn't admitted it to me yet as I've gone strict NC but I have been told off numerous ppl... She was also drunk last night putting Status on fb which led me to believe she definetly is and come this mornin she's like " oh should always remember to log out of fb when sum1 else has my phone " pathetic and embarrassed. I knw she has the GIGS.. And things might seem good to her now but it won't last or will it probaly 5 yrs only LOL, I've stated b4 that I thk she's drinking to forget but who knws she still young and that's what you do. I just don't think fb is a place where you should hang all your dirty laundry!!!
Mcnulty Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Totally agree re.facebook. Mine hated it, said she never used it, used to watch me like a hawk on it, looked down on me when i used it, then 2 and a half weeks later, she puts"in a relationship with my friend....sad sad sad, hypocritical, petty and cheap...if she was trying to get a rise out of me, it didn't frigging work, cos i've kept my dignity and remained in NC...screw her and him...friend my arse!! If she can't cope on her own mate, she's weak and sad...you're best off without her.
nu464 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 So today I found out my boyfriend was hiding a secret bank account with money I was not aware of.... It really hurt my feelings because throughout our whole relationship I have been open to him about everything in my life even about my finances...and all I ask in return is for him to do the same Awhile back he spoke to me about his father & his his GF and how they split up the finances. He told me that they don't tell each other how much they make and they keep the banks account separately. They both just pay each 50% of the bills. I told him I wasn't okay with that because I want to be a relationship where we open about each other life's and we shared everything with each other no matter if it hurts. I told him to promise he will never hide anything from me and he agreed. To me, in a relationship, its important for each us to be very open to the other person so we can always have a flowing relationship where their is a lot of communication going on. I feel like I don't know him anymore..if he is hiding that from me what else is he hiding from me...I am really disappointed because I have been very open to him about my life I have kept my side of the promise.... any suggestions...
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