ech Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Last night I went out with a girlfriend of mine for a "girls night out". My bf of 2 months tracked me down and showed up at the bar I was at. Pissed my friend off, so she left. Him and I stayed and had a few drinks, we got into an argument about something stupid, he went to my house, took his stuff, and dropped off his keys. I went to his place to get my stuff and he basically threw me (shoved) in my car, slammed the door on me and told me to go. I then got texts that he did that cause he did not want me to go, he was upset I broke up with him ect....If you read my last post, in our last argument, he put a hole in the wall. Now he shoved me. And today he acted kind of proud of it, laughing about it. We worked things out, but I am just scared of how far he may go now. Anybody ever been through this?
ShannonMI Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Last night I went out with a girlfriend of mine for a "girls night out". My bf of 2 months tracked me down and showed up at the bar I was at. Pissed my friend off, so she left. Him and I stayed and had a few drinks, we got into an argument about something stupid, he went to my house, took his stuff, and dropped off his keys. I went to his place to get my stuff and he basically threw me (shoved) in my car, slammed the door on me and told me to go. I then got texts that he did that cause he did not want me to go, he was upset I broke up with him ect....If you read my last post, in our last argument, he put a hole in the wall. Now he shoved me. And today he acted kind of proud of it, laughing about it. We worked things out, but I am just scared of how far he may go now. Anybody ever been through this? Yeah this guy has serious anger issues. I commented on your other thread about this. It's only going to get worse. Break up with him before he beats your @ss.
azsinglegal Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 The last guy that put a hole in my wall, then my cabinet and moved onto me. GET OUT. He doesn't beat you because he loves you.
Beachgirl8 Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Do you think his behavior is acceptable? Do you think he will never do it again? It's not acceptable. He will do it again, and worse. This is a an absolute dealbreaker in my opinion and a reason to never, ever have any contact with him again. He was PROUD of it? He LAUGHED about it??? Girl you need to get MAD, refuse to accept this treatment from him or anyone else, and LEAVE.
ShannonMI Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Sounds kinky! Ech, I'd break up with him if I was you and get away from him. I have anger issues, but I would never put a hand on a woman in the way in which he did to you, punching a wall is one thing, using force to get you into your car is quite another. Kinky how? I should have phrased it "he will beat the sh*t out of you." Or is that kinky too? And using force to get a woman into her car isn't something the guy should have done. Shoving, pushing, hitting: It's all bad news
ShannonMI Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I thought you meant buttocks smacking. In other words Shannon it was a joke. Also where have I said a use of force is acceptable? Punching a wall isn't acceptable, so clearly use force on a woman is also wrong, I haven't condoned his actions at all. Yeah and I was joking as well. Jeez. I misread your post apparently. I thought you said it was bad to punch a wall, but shoving a woman into a car was something different. Sorry for the confusion.
Author ech Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 Thanks again everyone- I know I have to end it. Its just going to be hard. I thought I finally had someone that actually loves me, and then this. Just sucks. Thanks again.
zengirl Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Thanks again everyone- I know I have to end it. Its just going to be hard. I thought I finally had someone that actually loves me, and then this. Just sucks. Thanks again. You do have someone that loves you: You. Love yourself enough not to tolerate or make excuses for abuse. Ever. It sounds like you're moving in the right direction.
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