safetyv Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 i broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5years about 3 months ago. for the first month and a half of the breakup we kept having sex but then she said we had to stop because it was hurting her. i asked her if she wanted to get back together and she said no. so we hung out as "friends" for a month but it was very flirty. and i can tell there was more to it. so one day when we were due to hang out i called her and she was angry and i hung up on her. she txtd me saying she was sorry a few times and i told her we shouldnt be friends because it was hurting me. so she asked if i wanted to talk and i went over to her house and we had a massive d&m. we held each other for about an hour, kissed, and she told me that she still has feelings. so when i said "if we feel the same then why cant we try and fix things" she told me "we only just broke up, i dont wanna hurt u or us anymore" so we agreed not to talk for a month. i can tell you now she hasnt even kissed another guy. and we are about two weeks into this no contact month. im hoping she is missing me and when we do make contact again i am going to be very fun and flirty but avoid being needy and emotional. my plan is that eventually we will hang out more and more and eventually develop into a relationship. thoughts? last time we hung out i could tell she really did have feelings... she kissed me... and i know that she hasnt gone near other guys... so do you think i have a chance at making it work?
name goeshere Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Nothing can be known until why you broke up comes out. It sounds like she wants to but something, possibly something big is holding her back. Until that is resolved there probably is not a chance.
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