without Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 I've been chatting with a guy for about a week,we talk like twice a day,long conversations usually. I really like him,i think he likes me too.same interests etc..he's eager to chat. I think he's abit shy..I tried to show him i wanna go out with him..but he didn't ask me out. once he asked me if I could spppend a day with someone whho would it be? I was shy and i said i know but i won't tell you he said he has some on his mind but he won't share unless i do. anyway at last i told him,that would be him,and he said why don't you then?and i said i will i guess..i asked him if he liked that too and he said he does,why not?... anyway after that the subject never came up...we just talk about stuff.. what should i do?is he not interested? I also feel very self-conscious about myself,he has seen photos of me...but i think he may think i'm fat or idk...
Author without Posted September 15, 2011 Author Posted September 15, 2011 and it will be my first time asking a guy out..i also don't want to seem clingy..
Lilmisus Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 From the sounds of it, you met him online. Online dating site? How old are y'all? I say, go for it. He seems obviously interested, so why not?
Imageiko Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Well he definitely tried to ask you out in a very roundabout way. I agree that he definitely is shy and I'd say go for it, I'd be shocked if he said no.
Author without Posted September 15, 2011 Author Posted September 15, 2011 Well he definitely tried to ask you out in a very roundabout way. I agree that he definitely is shy and I'd say go for it, I'd be shocked if he said no. thank you.
cerridwen Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Without, have you asked him out yet? Have you proposed going for a coffee or somesuch? If you haven't, give it a go. It sounds like you're both a touch shy, which is charming and endearing in itself. If he weren't interested, it's unlikely he would have responded as favorably as he has. Ask him out and let us know how it goes. Good luck!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I did,he said yes. Hey, good for you in having built up your courage and asking... Congrats!
Author without Posted September 20, 2011 Author Posted September 20, 2011 Hey, good for you in having built up your courage and asking... Congrats! thanksss...
Author without Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 I'm still confused,we went out i really like him. The thing is i don't know if he really likes me too.if i don't contact him throughout a day,he won't ,(i miss him..)and he hasn't made any comments about me or how i look(usually my boyfriends would tell me that) but when i contact him ,he's so supportive and warm...should i give him more time...?its been two days since we've gone out.
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