jenjen83 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I know I shouldn't dwell but I keep thinking about the meeting I had with my ex-boyfriend a month ago and if he still cares about me. It was the first time we'd seen it other since our break-up and as two months has passed I thought we'd be different with each other but we weren't. We went and got lunch and we talked and laughed as always. We tickled each other which ended up with him putting his arm around me (he didn't break that off even when we moved around people in shops he kept his arm there) We went for a drink and he took a sip of mine without asking like he did when we were together and he mentioned a place we had gone for breakfast once (the first time he'd mentioned something we'd done in the past). We visited a park too and he was affectionate there and then gave me a jacket of his to wear when it cold. We ended up in the lingerie department of a shop (he likes women in stockings) and picked up and looked at some before saying ''memories'' and walking off. When I went home we hugged and kissed on the lips several times and he waited 5 minutes until my coach had gone instead of just going. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend and I believe him so was the above just him being nice to me? or just falling back into old habits with me?
M2155 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 The feelings don't disappear, he probably does still care for you. But stay NC and try to move on until he makes a real effort to be with you again for real.
Author jenjen83 Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 I don't think he'll ever want me again but I am gonna stick with NC. Thanks for the reply.
Author jenjen83 Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 Anyone else have a similar experience?
TheDovic Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Yes actually, My ex and I are also broken up two months. She broke up with me but kept coming to visit me and arranging to do things together. Then one month ago we went shopping together to get a few things for my house and had a fun day with a lot of flirting, playful name calling and touching. We also went for something to eat and she stole all my fries. Since then she has been texting me a lot flirting and looking to come see me but she's only giving me breadcrumbs, so until she tells me she wants me back there's not much I can do apart from nc.
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