mindgame13 Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 my girlfriend split up with my 6 days ago after nearly 2 years, she has always showed alot of love for me, at the start of my relationship, i was smoking weed and she left me for it, i stopped and she contacted me 2 weeks later and we got back together than we never argued for around a year, then i started to smoke weed again, then we started arguement and i was clean ever since that, then she caught me talking to other girls i said i would never do it again and i did she caught me doing this around 3 times, then i started my own buisness and started niglecting her, she started to get annoyed but she accepted it as she new i had alot on my plate. then she went on holiday to lanzorote, and said on the day she got back could she see me and i said sorry i was busy working and ever since then she wasnt herself with me, even tho a week later we went on holiday to greece together for 2 weeks the holiday was ok for the first week, we still had a sexual life in the first week but during the second week we had noothing and she started to ignore me, then we got home, she said she couldnt see me for a week as she was busy with work, which wasnt true she was avoiding me as i found out. when we met up she ignored me for the first hour then i had to pretty much beg her to tell me what was up, she couldnt tell me what was up i had to ask all the questions. she said that she didnt wanna be with me anymore but when i said do you still love me she either wouldnt say anything or that she said she doesnt no, during this time i was holding her hand, and sometime when i pulled away she would like grab it at the last second and then let go. then i said do you want me to go she said yes, then wen i went i said do i get a kiss and she crossed her arms all defensively so i just give her a kiss on the neck and said i love you. i text her that evening and she said for the first time she went out with her parents and said it was the first time she felt happy and relaxed. the next day i poured my heart out to her over the phone and said can i have one more chance she said no i cant. so i just said il give you your space and if you need me text me. i said i loved her and left it at that. during the night i got a text saying you awake but at this time i was asleep, then when i text her in the morning i said what was up and she said umm i dunno im sorry just wanted to see how you were? so i left it for another couple of days and asked her again asked did that mean anything about when she text me the other night. she never replied but i no she had read it. then the day after that she wrote on fb, song lyrics by beyounce" you turned out to be the best thing i never had which has lyrics in it like you never gonna get me back and stuck, but i dont see why she would post stuff still relating about me if she did the dumping? is there anyone that can put some light on this. she also has trouble communicating with me directly but fine with her friend and she is very stubborn
Nohbody Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 Cut off all contact with her. Let her see what life is like without you. Maybe she'll come back. Maybe she won't. Nothing you can do to persuade her - she probably can't be reasoned with. So focus on you, go 'No Contact', and do what is best for you. she'll either come along or she won't. Sucks. but that's about it.
Author mindgame13 Posted August 13, 2011 Author Posted August 13, 2011 what do you think is going on through her head at the moment?
Nohbody Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 The only person who knows that is her. Look at what she does, disregard what she says.
Eddie Edirol Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 She is thinking that she hates that she invested her emotions into you because youre an ass! You dogged her early on, didnt take her seriously, and then didnt realize what you had until she realized she couldnt be in love with you anymore. She is posting songs because she misses you, but sh knows she cant be with you again because youre not trustworthy, and shes right. Leave her alone, youve lost her for good. Take this as a lesson, and treat the next girlfriend right, or this will happen again, and its only your fault.
AcaciaStrain Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Take it easy.. He's only human. Humans make mistakes. Anyway, as said above. Tell her you're sorry, then go complete NC, work on yourself and she may, or may not come back. But hanging around will make it easier for her to leave you for good.
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