LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I like to have many buttons hanging around in case I need them. I will use you as someone I like to play around with or use you as my emotional tampon. I will never wear my heart on my sleeve, you must work for that. There is always intense underlying sexual tension, but it is never to be spoken of directly. Your direct come ons or plays will be twisted right back onto you, fustrating yes, but so are your games. You will become intrigued. I do not use taken buttons, those will be quickly discarded, but not without a few last words. 90% of buttons ,you will soon realize, are not worth keeping around for permanent friendship, because they lie about having girlfriends or the extent of the relationships. This knowledge usually comes in play when they text a text meant for you to their GF or she snoops in their drawers. It is fun to watch how fast a man runs like a scurried dog with his tail between his legs when caught. Their reaction enables you to seperate the asses from the true gents, your true friends. You can kick and next a clown, ass, or player straight in the balls, by making them pass the button test, which they fail exceedingly at. If by chance you bend my shield, there does lie a sweet, most importantly fun, good natured girl worth the wait. Women need to use the button test to protect themselves from unsavory and harmful characters from entering their spheres.
thatone Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 (edited) your problem with that approach is any stable, sane, rational, desirable man will simply say no (even if he doesn't say it directly, by action). no man who can go find another woman if you lead him on will be around for very long, he'll simply find someone else. if you can't learn enough about a man from dating him to judge his character, then it's your fault, and trying to pass that blame to every other man you meet is a good way to be single or in dysfunctional relationships forever. no good can come of it. Edited August 1, 2011 by thatone
Feelin Frisky Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Well, I can be pressed. Or fastened through an appropriate hole (on the right garment). But how much else can a button do but just be at the ready?
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 your problem with that approach is any stable, sane, rational, desirable man will simply say no (even if he doesn't say it directly, by action). no man who can go find another woman if you lead him on will be around for very long, he'll simply find someone else. if you can't learn enough about a man from dating him to judge his character, then it's your fault, and trying to pass that blame to every other man you meet is a good way to be single or in dysfunctional relationships forever. no good can come of it. In a strange way, i feel comfortable with that, i am okay with that. I do have a few good ones that have stuck around and are always available to talk when needed. They are purely platonic, however.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 Well, I can be pressed. Or fastened through an appropriate hole (on the right garment). But how much else can a button do but just be at the ready? A grand button, I see;)
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 I'm sorry you are in pain. Time will heal. Funny you mentioned pain, have been thinking about the notion of pain lately, it's positive aspects and negative aspects.
FitChick Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 your problem with that approach is any stable, sane, rational, desirable man will simply say no (even if he doesn't say it directly, by action). no man who can go find another woman if you lead him on will be around for very long, he'll simply find someone else. if you can't learn enough about a man from dating him to judge his character, then it's your fault, and trying to pass that blame to every other man you meet is a good way to be single or in dysfunctional relationships forever. no good can come of it. You got that right!
Professor X Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Funny you mentioned pain, have been thinking about the notion of pain lately, it's positive aspects and negative aspects. I like to think of pain as of lava. Nothing real good comes from the lava itself, but the aftermath, can be extremely nourishing to nature. Volcanic soil is among the most fertile lands there is. Same with pain, nothing real good at the heat of the moment can come of it, but the aftermath might help you rebuild stronger and better whatever it ruined.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 I like to think of pain as of lava. Nothing real good comes from the lava itself, but the aftermath, can be extremely nourishing to nature. Volcanic soil is among the most fertile lands there is. Same with pain, nothing real good at the heat of the moment can come of it, but the aftermath might help you rebuild stronger and better whatever it ruined. Great analogy. Pain tolerance is my problem. It sits side by side with me like a fellow friend. My comfort zone. Strange as that sounds.
Professor X Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Great analogy. Pain tolerance is my problem. It sits side by side with me like a fellow friend. My comfort zone. Strange as that sounds. It does sound strange, but to each his own; As long as you can grow out of it, it is all good.
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