Kazmi Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Weirdest thing happened to me yesterday. I take the bus everyday to the train station, the bus goes through my ex's neighbourhood. When we were still together we used to wave eachother, while he was waiting for his bus (the bus he took was to the other direction).. After we broke he started to take different buses, so he won't see me (I once had to take an earlier bus and there he was, at the bus station) Yesterday, after we passed the bus station in his neighbourhood (to my direction) I saw him running after my bus, when he passed it he stopped at place and just stared at my bus... I followed him with my eyes until he was behind us and he kept staring and I think he may even saw me... I don't see a reason a person who avoided me AT ALL COST for 4.5 months and KNOWS I take this bus daily and needs to take a bus to the other direction would try to catch my bus.. Moreover, he missed the bus at the station. He just ran after it even though the next stop was far from that place. I thought to myself that he may have needed to go to the other direction yesterday, but that doesn't explain why he stopped to stare at my bus instead of just walking when he saw it was the wrong bus or something X_X I was stunned, it felt like a scene from a romantic movie or something. I'm not sure what it going on.. I was wondering if I should ask him.. Help, so confused, and missing him quite a lot.. The only good thing in this entire thing is that I discovered it doesn't hurt me physically to see him. :/
Exit Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Definitely not a good idea to ask him about it. You could end up looking quite foolish if there's a perfectly good reason why he was chasing that bus. If he has something to say to you, he'll make contact. Otherwise, just laugh it off as a funny event.
TearyEyedPride Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 I cosign with Exit there... I mean yeah you have to admit it was kinda weird lol. But it could've just been coincedence, and if he wanted to really see you or talk to you, he would, no exceptions. It is quite funny though. Just enjoy the laugh and continue trying to go forth.
Author Kazmi Posted June 17, 2011 Author Posted June 17, 2011 lol I wish I could laugh at it, it's was just too weird. As said, I felt like part of a movie. He did look silly though, chasing a bus AFTER it left the bus station Anyhow, you guys are right.. If he has anything to say he would approach me, he still has my address and phone etc.. Thanks. Just going a bit nuts, I miss him afterall and the question pops in my mind every now and then "what the hell?"
JHS Posted June 17, 2011 Posted June 17, 2011 Definitely not a good idea to ask him about it. You could end up looking quite foolish if there's a perfectly good reason why he was chasing that bus. If he has something to say to you, he'll make contact. Otherwise, just laugh it off as a funny event. I like this suggestion. I find that so many people read into things unnecessarily. Very pragmatic advice...
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