one goal Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 THis is my last semester at the community college. Anyways in my class we were put into small groups. Anyways the only hot chick in class happens to be in my group. So how do I get to know her better, and possibly how do I go about asking her out as the summer semester goes on? We have each others cell numbers because of the project. So How do I get her to like me, and get to the point of asking her out down the road?
ConfusedGuy28 Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 How do you get someone to like you? She either likes you or she doesn't man. Has she flirted with you, made an attempt to talk to you about YOU, etc? I would just casually ask her "so how's your boyfriend?" - and if she says I don't have one, why do you ask? - you say "well I was thinking we could go for coffee sometime and get to know each other a little better" Don't make this a "i need to get to know her for weeks before I say anything."
Author one goal Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 I never talked to her before today. I want to get to know her better first. Should I text her randomly and ask her stuff?
Cracker Jack Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 ^No. That's exactly what you shouldn't do. You have her # for the project, not for randomly texting her. If you want to talk to her, do it in class. Just create small talk with her and go from there. Just don't text/call her unless it's project related.
Author one goal Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 ^No. That's exactly what you shouldn't do. You have her # for the project, not for randomly texting her. If you want to talk to her, do it in class. Just create small talk with her and go from there. Just don't text/call her unless it's project related. How am I going to get to know her better then?
alethean Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 How am I going to get to know her better then? Exactly how he said. You start with small talk in class. If things seem to be going well, then you start the outside stuff like texting, asking her out, etc.
Author one goal Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 Exactly how he said. You start with small talk in class. If things seem to be going well, then you start the outside stuff like texting, asking her out, etc. How should I ask her out when the time comes? By text?
Cracker Jack Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Dude, just focus on getting to know her first. Once you get to know her a bit, ask her out in person. Do not text/call her until she makes it clear that you can do it. If you randomly ask her out in a text without feeling her out, your chances are likely history. Don't overthink this.
alethean Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 How should I ask her out when the time comes? By text? It's probably better to do it in person.
Trimmer Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 THis is my last semester at the community college. Anyways in my class we were put into small groups. Anyways the only hot chick in class happens to be in my group. Seriously man, you should come with a warning label. But I'm sure this time will be different than the others.
Author one goal Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 So I looked her up on facebook, and according to facebook she goes to a university on the other side of the state, and probably just home for the summer taking summer classes. So do I have to make a move fast now?
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 So do I have to make a move fast now? No, you do not.
Cracker Jack Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 You overthink this stuff way too much. You haven't even talked to her yet. When's the next time you're going to see her?
Author one goal Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 You overthink this stuff way too much. You haven't even talked to her yet. When's the next time you're going to see her? Next Monday which is next class.
RovingReporter Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 So I looked her up on facebook, and according to facebook she goes to a university on the other side of the state, and probably just home for the summer taking summer classes. So do I have to make a move fast now? Yeah, text her right now and set up a date.
Author one goal Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 How about if I ask her if she wants to work together on our paper and like meetup somewhere? How do I get to talk to her to let her know I'm interested in her?
BCCA Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 She'll know you're interested if you talk to her in person and seem generally interested in what she has to say. If you randomly text/call her, when the only reason you have her number is school, you'll look totally CREEPY. Do yourself a favor and talk to her at school.
Author one goal Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 She'll know you're interested if you talk to her in person and seem generally interested in what she has to say. If you randomly text/call her, when the only reason you have her number is school, you'll look totally CREEPY. Do yourself a favor and talk to her at school. What should I talk to her about that will let her know I'm interested in her?
oaks Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 What should I talk to her about that will let her know I'm interested in her? Girls like talking about themselves. Ask her about herself.
BCCA Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 What cracks me up is that you're overthinking this like you have a crush on her or something, then you go on to say 'I want to bone her' LOL If you just want to get laid, then why worry so much? Methinks you're trying to protect your ego if you get shut down, and want more than to 'bone her'.
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