mr.dream merchant Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 After the conquest is over, I just don't even want to be bothered by her anymore. Just smashed for the 1st time? Cool. She wants to see me again. My reply "Uh, I'm busy. Yeah Friday to. Yeah Saturday to. You know what I'll let you know." I don't even have to smash anymore. Just getting the date set up lol. I don't know. I just lose interest. Got a date Sunday for ice cream on the beach with a pretty attractive foreign latina from Panama. But she's so into me I'm just like "Eh....whatever." Talking about marriage and love, it definitely turned me off. I don't want to form a connection with her, I don't want to be her guy, all that relationship bull****..ugh. I just wanted to **** once, maybe twice. But now I just want to duck her and get trashed instead. She's a sweetheart though, trying to think of a way to let her down easy. I really do treat them like they're expendable now...cause they really are. I can easily replace if I have to, if I'm willing to put in the effort. But ****. I just do not care. They're always there. Their green lights? Always on. I used to be thirsty for em' but now that they're readily available to me, they just become less valuable to me. This has been the pattern for 2 years now. Ever since I whipped into really good shape and realized the pull I have with women...I just don't care about them anymore. And the care is so little that now I'm non-chalant about disappointing them. Not even careful about it or selective with my words just straight up "I'm busy Sunday, maybe another time." Even though I already made plans to see her Sunday lmfao. Hopefully I'll grow out of this. Maybe I'll get into a car crash and be a paraplegic with a third degree burn scarred face. But for now, pussy is too abundant to even care if it comes or goes. And that alone pisses them off. Cause they know I don't care. They know I know I can replace them. It shows. Yikes.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 You are one of those sad people who is blessed with advantages in life and does not appreciate them or enjoy what life gives you. Maybe someday you will, when you realize that life is temporary.
Johnny85 Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 You are one of those sad people who is blessed with advantages in life and does not appreciate them or enjoy what life gives you. Maybe someday you will, when you realize that life is temporary. Did you ever have an account on livedaily? lol:cool:
Jono85 Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 so what was the point of this post... are not enough ppl in your reality taking notice or something? otherwise didn't seem like any questions or concerns.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Have you ever considered the possibility that you could be gay?
snug.bunny Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Soooo, stop having sex. It won't kill you. Take a cue from this guy... http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1vqzHx/www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DGc4HGQHgeFE
sanskrit Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Sounds like you need a challenge? Are all these women throwing themselves at you professional models? If not, step up into that ballgame. Most of them go to the same bars and clubs, so are easy to find. And you know what, life isn't -supposed- to be all about sex and relationships, only a single component of a rich life. If you have other areas of your life where you want them, the sex and relationship component falls right into place. Despite what the TV says, sex is not the answer to all of life's questions. I get the feeling some of the boredom and nonchalance are because you aren't spending lots of your time on other goals. If you get to 30, and all you have to offer are good looks... you'll still do great with women but might find things in life out of your reach because you didn't plan now.
Lucky_One Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 You are such a sh*t. I hope you grow out of it one day.
donnamaybe Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 You are such a sh*t. I hope you grow out of it one day. That, or VERY imaginative! It could actually be a situation where daydreams of grandiosity are making their way to a message board.
bac Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 IMO you are able to see sex as a quantity thing but you are not able to see sex as quality. In other words, you can not see the difference between great and boring sex. As you mentioned, any sex is boring to you. And, it is because of you. IMO You unconsciosly/deep inside know that if you do not dump a girl as soon as possible, she will dump you herself because you are not fun/creative at sex.
phillyfan Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 After the conquest is over, I just don't even want to be bothered by her anymore. Just smashed for the 1st time? Cool. She wants to see me again. My reply "Uh, I'm busy. Yeah Friday to. Yeah Saturday to. You know what I'll let you know." I don't even have to smash anymore. Just getting the date set up lol. I don't know. I just lose interest. Got a date Sunday for ice cream on the beach with a pretty attractive foreign latina from Panama. But she's so into me I'm just like "Eh....whatever." Talking about marriage and love, it definitely turned me off. I don't want to form a connection with her, I don't want to be her guy, all that relationship bull****..ugh. I just wanted to **** once, maybe twice. But now I just want to duck her and get trashed instead. She's a sweetheart though, trying to think of a way to let her down easy. I really do treat them like they're expendable now...cause they really are. I can easily replace if I have to, if I'm willing to put in the effort. But ****. I just do not care. They're always there. Their green lights? Always on. I used to be thirsty for em' but now that they're readily available to me, they just become less valuable to me. This has been the pattern for 2 years now. Ever since I whipped into really good shape and realized the pull I have with women...I just don't care about them anymore. And the care is so little that now I'm non-chalant about disappointing them. Not even careful about it or selective with my words just straight up "I'm busy Sunday, maybe another time." Even though I already made plans to see her Sunday lmfao. Hopefully I'll grow out of this. Maybe I'll get into a car crash and be a paraplegic with a third degree burn scarred face. But for now, pussy is too abundant to even care if it comes or goes. And that alone pisses them off. Cause they know I don't care. They know I know I can replace them. It shows. Yikes. So stop tryin to smash easy replaceable skanks that wud go with anyone, then. Any dude can hit that, u aint so special, but the girls that have class? probly wont touch u wit a bargepole rite now - u need 2 up ur game and raise ur standards.
vsmini Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 So stop tryin to smash easy replaceable skanks that wud go with anyone, then. Any dude can hit that, u aint so special, but the girls that have class? probly wont touch u wit a bargepole rite now - u need 2 up ur game and raise ur standards. This is the part where he says "your opinion is worthless to me." He's just a very dedicated troller here on LS.
Kamille Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Are you happy? Then stop whining. Unhappy? Then, clearly, you'll need to identify where your inability to care and connect stems from.
FlowerGirly Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 After the conquest is over, I just don't even want to be bothered by her anymore. Just smashed for the 1st time? Cool. She wants to see me again. My reply "Uh, I'm busy. Yeah Friday to. Yeah Saturday to. You know what I'll let you know." I don't even have to smash anymore. Just getting the date set up lol. I don't know. I just lose interest. Got a date Sunday for ice cream on the beach with a pretty attractive foreign latina from Panama. But she's so into me I'm just like "Eh....whatever." Talking about marriage and love, it definitely turned me off. I don't want to form a connection with her, I don't want to be her guy, all that relationship bull****..ugh. I just wanted to **** once, maybe twice. But now I just want to duck her and get trashed instead. She's a sweetheart though, trying to think of a way to let her down easy. I really do treat them like they're expendable now...cause they really are. I can easily replace if I have to, if I'm willing to put in the effort. But ****. I just do not care. They're always there. Their green lights? Always on. I used to be thirsty for em' but now that they're readily available to me, they just become less valuable to me. This has been the pattern for 2 years now. Ever since I whipped into really good shape and realized the pull I have with women...I just don't care about them anymore. And the care is so little that now I'm non-chalant about disappointing them. Not even careful about it or selective with my words just straight up "I'm busy Sunday, maybe another time." Even though I already made plans to see her Sunday lmfao. Hopefully I'll grow out of this. Maybe I'll get into a car crash and be a paraplegic with a third degree burn scarred face. But for now, pussy is too abundant to even care if it comes or goes. And that alone pisses them off. Cause they know I don't care. They know I know I can replace them. It shows. Yikes. I think you are a womanizing creep. Seek Therapy.
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 This has been the pattern for 2 years now. Ever since I whipped into really good shape and realized the pull I have with women...I just don't care about them anymore. You are fortunate to have women being so available for you. You can get a sense of the way it is for woman who have men wanting to go out with them, making time/effort to get a date with them. Maybe the tide is shifting these days, but it may still be more common for a guy to initiate a date. So you can imagine now what it feels like for a woman who has all these guys initiating dates with her. If that woman wants a date, she can easily get a date because she knows guys are actively wanting to spend time with her. Just like the chicks who constantly are trying to get time with you. It becomes ordinary and you get to choose who you want to be with and when. It's this good fortune of choosing that has become ordinary to you, even boring is what it now sounds like. What's missing for you, imo, are romantic relationships on a deeper level. The love, joy, happiness, intimacy, cuddling, snuggling, romantic smooching kind of level. The "I want to get to know you" and "I want you in my life more" kind of level. So don't give up. You are still very young and your relationships have a lot more room to mature. They know I know I can replace them. It shows. You can replace genitals, but you can't replace the heart and soul of one person. When you do find a special someone, you know they are not replaceable.
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 And you know what, life isn't -supposed- to be all about sex and relationships, only a single component of a rich life. If you have other areas of your life where you want them, the sex and relationship component falls right into place. Despite what the TV says, sex is not the answer to all of life's questions. I get the feeling some of the boredom and nonchalance are because you aren't spending lots of your time on other goals. If you get to 30, and all you have to offer are good looks... you'll still do great with women but might find things in life out of your reach because you didn't plan now. Very well said. While I think now is a great time for him to be thinking about relationships, it is vital to keep things in balance and live a rich personal life as you point out here.
reboot Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 C'mon guys, he's playing you. He's probably still a virgin.
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 I think you are a womanizing creep. Seek Therapy. He's very open and honest with what he says, I respect that honesty. He's bored with women now and he's talking about it. I don't think he is here to brag, he is here for discussion. It's one thing if he's bored with woman - a sort of womanizer - and doesn't intend to change, but I think he really is trying to get something to help his relationships, he really is looking for input.
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Mr. DM, where I was really going with comparing you to women was the contrast. Women seek the relationship with a man, which keeps the dating interesting. When you just seek the genitals it gets superficial, compulsive and even boring.
reboot Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 He's very open and honest with what he says, I respect that honesty. He's bored with women now and he's talking about it. I don't think he is here to brag, he is here for discussion. Then why has he not said anything further since the original post?
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Then why has he not said anything further since the original post? He was with a woman last night, is bored with her and is now currently dumping her - unable to get back to this thread just yet?
FlowerGirly Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 C'mon guys, he's playing you. He's probably still a virgin. He has quite a few threads showing this is just the person he is.
reboot Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Just because he's created a bunch of threads doesn't mean he's told the truth in any of them.
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