Ex suddenly doesn't want a relationship, but says he wants to try again soon.

[Daaanz]

Okay, my situation is kinda confusing. My relationship split around two weeks ago now. Things got really tough in our relationship, I became VERY clingy and we argued a lot and I guess this is what pushed him away and eventually he told me he couldn't be with me any longer, which is fair enough, I think it was what we both needed.

However, now after the break we've had I've realised all I did was wrong and I want him back. I've told him how I feel about everything but he feels he wouldn't be happy in a relationship right now and I know I can't force him, however I think if he just let himself go, we would be fine. He's said to me after exams he'd like to give us another shot, when he can focus on us completely. We've been meeting up regularly and getting along just generally really really well, I know for a fact he still loves me. He said he can't see this being the end of us completely and he's promised me while he's away he isn't going to go with any new girls or do anything that will make me feel uncomfortable, since we have a holiday booked together in June, this is the night after his last exam. I'm so stuck on the situation, obviously I'm gonna live my life while I'm not with him, I'm not going to mope around and I am really happy now, but I do really want to be with him still. I just don't know what to do, can anyone give me any kind of advice?

[Daaanz]

bump? advice please...

[sun_moon]

You two sound really young! Honestly, I think you should give him a taste of his own medicine. leave him alone, and cancel the trip, so what if it cost a lot of money, you can cash it in for a certificate, lose some of the value of the ticket, but keep all you DIGNITY.

 

If he loves you, he will come back. You have a lot of worth, if he doesnt know it, it is his loss. Go be young and have fun without him.

 

that is my advise without knowing much of anything else ;-)