HeartOnSleeve Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I'm so confused...I was reading articles on "he's just not that into you" topics and comparing it to my current situation. What should we really expect from dating someone for 2 months? ...exclusivity, am I allowed to ask where we stand and if he's even into me. He's military special ops so yes his job is stressful and unpredictable but I feel like I am starting to make excuses for him. One minute I feel awesome about the relationship and the next I feel like crap. I want to talk to him about it but don't know how to even start the convo?! I am trying to follow my gut in my actions towards him, but now i'm just anxious all the time and am trying to play it cool. It's hard I just want to say "do you like me or not!" Here are some of the articles.... http://www.match.com/magazine/article/4854/ http://www.foxnews.com/imag/Love/7+Signs+He's+Not+That+Into+You My situation: He hasn't really taken me out to a nice dinner, but we have done a brunch and chill pizza place. I've met his close friends, but he hasn't met mine. Yet he gives me greif about it, but won't go the extra mile to meet them when I do invite him.He invited me over to meet his dad, and close family friends and they supposedly liked me. He did meet my mom for like 5 mins and seemed ok with meeting her.If I text or call he gets back to me within a few hours if not minutesHe doesn't really plan anything with me ahead of time. I'd like to blame his job but I am starting to feel like it's an excuseComplains that he hasn't seen my place, but I've invited him.folks, thoughts on this situation....will a guy tell a girl they are not interested or do I have to drag it out of him? or at worse should i just fade away and see what happens. He leaves for a month long training soon and I would like some security before I wait around for him. I've been really understanding of his work situation and what he is accomplishing, but a girls got to feel special no matter what ...right!
lolo1234 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I think you're settling for less than you should. By 2 months if he was really into you he would have taken you out to a nice dinner. I dunno, he sounds really wishy washy. Guys that say things that make them sound like they're interested but dont actually act on it are not really feeling it. I think you should move on (or start dating someone else). I know its easier said than done but honestly you shouldn't be feeling anxious about the relationship at 2 months.
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