Irishlove Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 I'm not sure where to start. I'll try to make it short. Twenty years ago I dated a man but he is ten years by senior and I was not ready to settle so both our lives went different directions. He got married, I got married. I had kids. He had a kids. Fast forward. We ran into each other a year ago. He said his marriage was on the rocks (after twenty years) and I had been seperated eight years out of ten. We have been caught three times seeing each other. We have carried our relationship into a full blown relationship. His wife has spoken to me and said she does not sleep with her husband she just does not do that. He talked about divorcing her and marrying me. The time has come. They have ten days. I asked to step back those ten days and he wants me to stay around. However his tune has changed. Now he is making me feel guilty that I want to get married. He told me this. I gave him no time ultimatum. He will not give me a for sure answer if he even wants to divorce her.wth? So I forwarded him all HIS texts where he said all those things to me. He wants to go out on a few dates just him and I before the divorce date. I don't know why? He lived with me for six months so he knows everything about me. I'm lost. I've never done this. Do I step out? Do I do as he asks and go on the dates? Do I tell him get the divorce before we go any further? He never moved back in with her. He had his own apartment. I'm so confused and probably made you just as confused. I'm a ball of nerves. Thank you.
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