tiger20 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I think I'm going to have to start dating women who have low interest level in me. Why? because I don't want sex. The only women who would be ok with a sexless relationship are those who have such low interest in me that they wouldn't care that I'm not having sex with them. So maybe that's the solution. Date the women who are not interested but who have ulterior motives for going out with me. This way we're both happy. Either way we slice it or dice it if a woman is interested in me she's going to want sex at some point & that will cause problems.
oaks Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I think I'm going to have to start dating women who have low interest level in me. I'm sure you'll have a wide selection to choose from.
january2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 who have ulterior motives for going out with me Please explain what you mean by "ulterior motives." In my opinion, if she has a low interest level in you, she's not going to want to date you, at all. And it would be a waste of time and effort for both parties concerned.
Author tiger20 Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 Not necessarily. Some women will date a man even if she doesn't dig him. Some date only because they don't want to be alone or they date just for the sake of dating. Some have low self esteem and don't think they can get any better so they settle for a guy they are not interested in. It's my only way out. I get what I want, which is NO sex, and she gets what she wants, i.e. curing loneliness, etc. Bottom line is I'm not compatible with the women who would be interested in me. I have to avoid them just because they're going to want sex at some point. I mean sex naturally follows high interest level, which is what I don't want.
january2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 So, what you're really looking for is a female companion/activity partner/friend?
Author tiger20 Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 I also don't want to see a woman more than once a month. My ideal dream relationship is to date a woman once a month for the rest of my life. Only women with low interest level don't care if I go a month without seeing them. The women with high interest level in me won't put up with that. They would get fed up with it. So that's just another reason why I'm not compatible with women who dig me. They're just going to want to spend more time together, which I don't want. What do I want out of a relationship? to see my girlfriend no more than once a month for the rest of my life & have no sex.
Gettingtired Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 What do I want out of a relationship? to see my girlfriend no more than once a month for the rest of my life & have no sex. Any particular reason for that? Dont mean to be nosey, it's just that seems so alien to me. You might as well not bother seeing anyone.
zengirl Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 You don't want sex. You don't want regular contact. Why date anyone? I don't get it.
oaks Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Once a month... and no sex... that's not dating. Are you sure you don't just want a friend who happens to be female?
SmileFace Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 :lmao::lmao:I'm sure you'll have a wide selection to choose from.
Author tiger20 Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 Yes perhaps all I have to do is wait for women to put me in the friend-zone. That will require no effort on my part for that to happen. I wouldn't be getting anything less out of friendship than what I want out of a relationship. Getting friend-zoned will require no effort on my part. All I have to do now is physically let myself go.
january2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Everything you've said so far seems to indicate that all you want is a female friend who you hang out with once a month. That's not dating, it's friendship, which suggests that you're posting in the wrong forum and using dating terminology when what you're really looking for is a friend not a date. I think that as soon as you adjust your terminology, it will be less confusing for those reading your threads because it fits better with what you're actually searching for.
utterer of lies Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Yes perhaps all I have to do is wait for women to put me in the friend-zone. That will require no effort on my part for that to happen. I wouldn't be getting anything less out of friendship than what I want out of a relationship. Getting friend-zoned will require no effort on my part. All I have to do now is physically let myself go. Are you a virgin?
bac Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 (edited) I think I'm going to have to start dating women who have low interest level in me. Why? because I don't want sex. The only women who would be ok with a sexless relationship are those who have such low interest in me that they wouldn't care that I'm not having sex with them. So maybe that's the solution. Date the women who are not interested but who have ulterior motives for going out with me. This way we're both happy. Either way we slice it or dice it if a woman is interested in me she's going to want sex at some point & that will cause problems. Why don't you want to have sex with women? IMO The best way to do that is to be a sugar daddy. Friendzone is great as well. I would love to have either a sugar daddy or a guy as a friend with no benefits. Those guys are hard to find and that is why they are so valuable. Edited February 4, 2011 by bac
fishtaco Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 You know who else don't want to have sex with women for the rest of their lives? Trolls.
sally4sara Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I also don't want to see a woman more than once a month. My ideal dream relationship is to date a woman once a month for the rest of my life. Only women with low interest level don't care if I go a month without seeing them. The women with high interest level in me won't put up with that. They would get fed up with it. So that's just another reason why I'm not compatible with women who dig me. They're just going to want to spend more time together, which I don't want. What do I want out of a relationship? to see my girlfriend no more than once a month for the rest of my life & have no sex. Okay, so what you do is hire an escort once a month and just not indulge in any sexual services they might offer. Problem solved. At first I thought "maybe he should look into one of those support groups for asexual people?" but even they might want to see their asexual partner more than once a month even to the point of living together or marriage and that wouldn't work for you. You need a very controlled situation and I just can't see a way to do that without a large potential for problems. So maybe an escort that doesn't provide sex or one that is fine just going out on a date rather than just servicing you sexually is your best bet. Does this need for limited interaction only apply to female companionship or do you also find male companionship too demanding and frequent as well?
sally4sara Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Yes its a troll situation. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t263629/
mo mo Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 You don't want sex. You don't want regular contact. Why date anyone? I don't get it. why feed this troll? That's the better question. He's either a troll that should not be listened to or a crazy person that cannot be reasoned with. Either way its pointless to debate his ideas. My initial response was all this thread really needed.
zengirl Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 why feed this troll? That's the better question. He's either a troll that should not be listened to or a crazy person that cannot be reasoned with. Either way its pointless to debate his ideas. My initial response was all this thread really needed. I didn't realize for sure he was a troll, and crazy people fascinate me. I want to understand the crazy. And half the time I can. Sort of. But not this time. This guy is beyond my comprehension. Or a troll, I guess. I don't know. I wasn't debating in that case; I was honestly asking and confused as hell.
dispatch3d Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 yeah I was going to ask if you're a women stuck in a man's body.
Lovelybird Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 steven20, is that you??? yes. Positively, also, Waynabey
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