AC06 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 The beginning of Day 10 of no contact. This is the longest we haven't spoken since we met a little over two years ago. It's been the most difficult experience of my life, the last few months of "maybe/maybe not", the constant changes in attitude, the overwhelming doubt. 10 days. And I just wish she'd contact me.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) I can imagine how you feel. Me and my ex brok up a little over a month ago and were suppose to take things "slow" as being friends. After breaking this off a few days ago getting closure and then dealing with our finacial issues. All I want is to do no contact about anything for a while. I know exactly how you feel though due to past break ups. At first you think NC makes things easier and at the very beggining you feel like it is. In a way were also hoping they're going to contact us seeing that were not speaking to them anymore will hopefully have them maybe running back to us. By where your at NC almost feels like it was a bad idea and it dosen't feel as good as we had hoped for some of us. Ultimatly I am sure you know NC is not about having them come back to us. It will get better though, try to imagine yourself where you are again happy about your life and no longer care anything about her. What she is doing, if she will contact, what she is thinking. None of it will matter anymore! In a few weeks I am sure I will probably feel like you do. Knowing its the right thing to do to heal. Telling yourself and knowing you will be happy again one day dosen't feel like enough at the moment. Even though I know I will get past this. Right now dosen't make it any easier. There will be a light at the end of your tunnel... Good for you on the NC.. Edited January 6, 2011 by Jdw_Icequeen
SDA Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 NC is very tough man, but I promise it works. She will contact you eventually, it's basically human nature. Be strong.
stopthemadness Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Good for you on the 10 days of N/C!!! am on day 9 of N/C and it feels GOOD (smile) He called me left a message,I didnt respond and still havent.. Dont think I EVER will. I pretty much feel done with all of this. Am so tried of feeling the pain of this break up. Day after day after day of heart ache ENOUGH!! It will get better for the both of us am sure..good luck to us..
J0N Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 It's a roller coaster, but things fade over time. Best of luck!!
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