Dox Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 (edited) I became friends with this girl on our last day in highschool. That night at our grad dinner we became good friends. We started talking on facebook, commenting on posts, photos etc... Our friends actually thought there was something going on between us. My friends kept asking me if I like her, and I kept denying it. She gave me her cellphone number and told me to get a phone so I can text her. So I did, I started texting her almost everynight for hours until late. This was happening for 2-3 weeks, until the day, us and our friends went to the beach. She didnt even say much to me, im thinking she was avoiding me or she was just shy (shes not a shy girl). This was not the case back at our grad dinner she was very playful with me. So that night we were texting like we normally do, and I just asked "are you serious about not wanting a relationship", she replied "yes im not looking for a bf, dont want any boy dramas", I replied "hahah ok sweet, I thought so". I wasnt expecting her to reply but she did a minute later saying "haha why do you ask". So I thought she knew I was talking about me, why would she ask that? So I replied "haha I asked for me". And I never got a reply from that. Btw she asked my friends if I was a player, cuz ive been flirting with her and she doesnt know what to do. my friends think she likes me and they keep asking me to ask her out. what do you guys think? Now it been almost 3 weeks, we dont text anymore but we still do communicate on facebook (not chat), we act like nothing happened. This past 3 weeks have been torture. Shes all I think about when i wake up, and when I go to sleep. i get jealous when she talks to guys on facebook, I miss her so much that it hurts. Shes like the perfect girl for me, shes nice, smart, pretty, it hurts that im not with her. I really thought that she liked me i dont know what happened. We have this planned catch up with our friends. I dont know if I should go cuz at the end of the day ill only end up feeling down, cuz i dont think anythings gonna happen with her. HELP ME PEOPLE PLEASE! Edited December 19, 2010 by Dox
january2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 She's already said she doesn't want a relationship, so I'd just play it cool and casual for now. You could always check if she feels the same way a bit later down the line but perhaps be more direct and ask if she'd like to go for a coffee, just the two of you. In the meantime, go to the planned catchup and just hang out as friends.
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