Lorenzo76 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 It has been a long time since I have been here. It was 2 years ago that I had a revenge affair with the spouse of my then wife's OM. I think that had to have been the most craziest time of my life. No one had ever messed with my life the way OM had and my thirst for revenge was unquenchable. I know there had to have been a few posters that thought I was crazy and off my rocker. I thought I would sleep with OM's wife a few times and I would have the pleasure of telling her husband and her vice versa. It did not turn out like that because of the strong emotional connection we developed and we fell in love. It's all in my history. I divorced my now ex wife very quickly but it took 15 long months for my OW's divorce to be finalized. The OM dragged it out as long as he could even at great expense to himself. Toward the end I don't think he even wanted her back..he just did not want her to be free so she could marry me. I had a lot of doubts at the beginning if I wanted a future with OW but I feel we are meant to be and I want to have a family with her. We will be getting married V-day 2011. It has been a long road but it has all come together. Looking back I know what I did was wrong but I can't say that I regret my revenge affair because it has brought me so much happiness. I want to thank my ex wife and OM for their affair. I won't because it would not be appropiate. I set a horrible example for my son but again I can't say I regret my actions. I am not advising people to go out and have a revenge affair because I think the end result is more likely you will just end up hurting youself more than if you had not. I think I just got lucky that mine turned out the way it did. So when all was said and done I have no regrets. 2
imagine Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Hi Lorenzo, I guess you were the longest standing letter on this forum. I guess your story underlined a few points about cheaters. I do hope that your marriage will be long and rewarding. Never take her for granted. All the best and please continue to keep in touch!
2long Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Oh I remember you all right. In spite of it all, I hope things work out. Thankfully, I'm not a betting man, because I would have 2 bet against you making it long-term if I were 2 bet. I hope you are able 2 find ways 2 make amends 2 the people who were hurt by your choices, particularly your son. best, -ol' 2long
Lecturer Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Ah, I remember your story! A very fascinating read. Happy to hear things worked out the way they did, and I wish you the best!
Darth Vader Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Ah, I remember your story! A very fascinating read. Happy to hear things worked out the way they did, and I wish you the best! WOW! Sounds like she still riding you hard! Still, it would've been better if you both divorced then married, well, you get the idea!
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