Emissary Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 (edited) We work together and have been playfully flirting with each other for a month now. Today we were talking about chick flicks, I told her my favourite was City of Angels and she asked me if I had ever seen her favourite, The Notebook. I hadn't seen it but I mentioned I'd been meaning to check it out. To this she said that we should watch it together. Watching a sappy romance alone with a girl I fancy, her favourite romance at that, which would mean theres potential she will let her emotions run high and leave herself vulnerable if I were to make my move. This sounds suspiciously like a date to me. I'm wondering though, we didn't get much of a chance to talk to each other after that, our job can be very distracting at times so our socializing was cut short for the day, but is this perhaps her way of saying she would like me to ask her out, we've got the scenario all laid out and all I would need to do is bring it up again and ask if she would like to do it sometime. Edited October 15, 2010 by Emissary
USMCHokie Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 Not a date; but she's definitely interested in a date. A real date, that is. Take her out properly and save the movie for a second or third date at either of your places.
Ichi-boned Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 We work together and have been playfully flirting with each other for a month now. Today we were talking about chick flicks, I told her my favourite was City of Angels and she asked me if I had ever seen her favourite, The Notebook. I hadn't seen it but I mentioned I'd been meaning to check it out. To this she said that we should watch it together. Watching a sappy romance alone with a girl I fancy, her favourite romance at that, which would mean theres potential she will let her emotions run high and leave herself vulnerable if I were to make my move. This sounds suspiciously like a date to me. I'm wondering though, we didn't get much of a chance to talk to each other after that, our job can be very distracting at times so our socializing was cut short for the day, but is this perhaps her way of saying she would like me to ask her out, we've got the scenario all laid out and all I would need to do is bring it up again and ask if she would like to do it sometime. The concept of "dating" is sterile and outdated. She seems to be interested, that's what's important. Don't think you need to wine and dine her to **** her.
USMCHokie Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 The concept of "dating" is sterile and outdated. She seems to be interested, that's what's important. Don't think you need to wine and dine her to **** her. If that's all you're after regarding women, then sure, it might work. But dating a woman is more than just the sexual aspect...the wining and dining is actually fun...so traditional dating paradigms might seem 'outdated' for those with that single mindset...but to each their own...
Ichi-boned Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 If that's all you're after regarding women, then sure, it might work. But dating a woman is more than just the sexual aspect...the wining and dining is actually fun...so traditional dating paradigms might seem 'outdated' for those with that single mindset...but to each their own... She might not be interested in a traditional, formal date. And it doesn't sound like she is. That's why I'm giving homeo the greenlight.
Author Emissary Posted October 15, 2010 Author Posted October 15, 2010 To clarify, I'm interested in an actual relationship, not just a **** buddy, though honestly with her personality I'd expect we would have sex a considerable amount, it's just not among my priorities.
Allisha Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 To clarify, I'm interested in an actual relationship, not just a **** buddy, though honestly with her personality I'd expect we would have sex a considerable amount, it's just not among my priorities. Putting myself in her position, I know I wouldn't say "we should watch it together" to a guy I wasn't attracted to. I don't really know why, but I just wouldn't. Ask her out asap. I want updates! You're OBLIGED to keep me updated. k?!
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