MrNate Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I thought this would be pretty cool. Alright guys, what non physical traits do you often find yourself attracted to in a woman? Basically, what would it take for you to be attracted to her emotionally? As for me: 1. Slight nerdiness 2. Some cockiness 3. A woman with guts 4. A never-say-die attitude 5. An ability to read me like a book ( Not necessary, but I often find these types interesting). 6. Can crack me up. These, as well as others, are definitely turn-ons for me, and often get me hot under the collar even if she's not the hottest thing around (it's happened a few times). I know physical attraction is important, but I think a lot of times, the focus on emotionally attracting a male can often be slightly underrated. What say you?
spookie Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 What about a man's non-physical traits? - Affectionate - Responsible - Practical - Non-judgmental - Funny
Serenitynow Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 what non physical traits do you often find yourself attracted to in a woman?As for me: 2. Some cockiness 4. A never-say-die attitude 5. An ability to read me like a book ( Not necessary, but I often find these types interesting) .
TouchedByViolet Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Good thread idea! 1- Likes to smile 2- Somewhat artistic and/or geeky 3- Engaging and friendly attitude 4- Enjoys physical affection stuff
phineas Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 i'm a total smart-ass. A woman that can challenge me in that department is very attractive to me.
kdark Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I'm drawn to smarts. A woman who can keep up with me in a debate or learn me something new makes me hot and bothered. And a girl who says what she means and means what she says gets high marks from me as well. I've burned too many times by girls that don't do this.
Author MrNate Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 I'm drawn to smarts. A woman who can keep up with me in a debate or learn me something new makes me hot and bothered. And a girl who says what she means and means what she says gets high marks from me as well. I've burned too many times by girls that don't do this. A woman like that is definitely awesome. As a man who stands by his words, I think a woman who stands by her words is pretty much awesome.
Author MrNate Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 i'm a total smart-ass. A woman that can challenge me in that department is very attractive to me. lol I know what you mean. Women who call me out on my crap are pretty awesome too.
Author MrNate Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 I've given up on women Why bud? You skydive!
brainygirl Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I've given up on women I'm thiiiis close to giving up on men . . .
kdark Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I'm thiiiis close to giving up on men . . . I've given up on woman in a sense, but I've only stopped actively pursuing them, and are instead focusing on things that matter to me. If a girl wants to join me, she is more than welcome...
Woggle Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 1.Ability to hold herself accoutable for her actions 2.A sense of fairness isntead of always siding with women no matter what 3.A love of getting out and experiencing the world instead of sitting home and watching tv 4.An open minded attitude towards life and a curiousity about what it has to offer 5.A love of music because I am an audiophile myself
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I thought this would be pretty cool. Alright guys, what non physical traits do you often find yourself attracted to in a woman? Basically, what would it take for you to be attracted to her emotionally? Voice. This is going to sound really odd, but a soft high pitch voice can turn me on quick.
Author MrNate Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 Voice. This is going to sound really odd, but a soft high pitch voice can turn me on quick. Hm. Never thought about that one. good one.
JessicaB Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 2.A sense of fairness isntead of always siding with women no matter what That's really great Woggle, because I'm sick of men who always side with women. I'm sick of all these guys who you think are cocky, in charge and calling the shots but as soon as their momma steps into the room, all of a sudden they aren't protecting me anymore. They're kissin the old lady's ass and throwing me under the bus.
zengirl Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Voice. This is going to sound really odd, but a soft high pitch voice can turn me on quick. Hm. Never thought about that one. good one. How is that a non-physical trait? Physical doesn't just mean visible. . .
Satisfaction Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Dancing. I really like guys who can dance. I like acrobats, ballet dancers, parkour guys, gymmasts.:'> sigh
Green Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 How is that a non-physical trait? Physical doesn't just mean visible. . . Oh zengirl even the soul might be a physical trait.
phineas Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 That's really great Woggle, because I'm sick of men who always side with women. I'm sick of all these guys who you think are cocky, in charge and calling the shots but as soon as their momma steps into the room, all of a sudden they aren't protecting me anymore. They're kissin the old lady's ass and throwing me under the bus. I didn't kiss my momma's ass. I sided with my wife to be & even when she became my wife. Mom was right though. She was a crazy, lieing, cheating, manipulating person that just wanted to drive a wedge between me & my family & I was too stupid in love to notice. guess what? Any woman that causes drama with my family is GONE ASAP. I ignored the red flags the first time. Not again.
SassyKitten Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Guess I have everything but the voice then, mine being deep(not manly deep, just deep) and smooth
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 How is that a non-physical trait? Physical doesn't just mean visible. . . I suppose your right, however.... It's definitely within the spirit of the thread. I mean technically our personality comes from our brain... which is physical. The point is that when a woman has a voice that sounds very feminine to me, it really turns me on....
Sphere Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I like women who allow a man to be a man without making him swallow the feminist doctrine. I like a woman who will challenge me mentally. I like a woman with a great set of values and ethics, preferably the same as mine. I like a woman with intelligence, but also displays humility. I like a woman who is interested in me for ME. These are the non-physical traits that I'd admire about a woman.
AD1980 Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 warm kind caring,nurturing Id say affectionate is #1 I cant stand aloof cold non touchy feely women
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