mlh5046 Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 (edited) I have no idea and am curious. For my standard right now a woman in her early 20's with close to 20 knotches on her belt could probably be suspicious of [promiscuity] anyone else care to express their thoughts? Edited March 8, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I wouldn't even consider hanging out with a nonslut. Gross.
carhill Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 IME, (female) 'sluts' tend to hang out with men rather than with other women of any sort, assuming they're straight...
brainygirl Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 In general a person's friends reflect their values in some way. that being said, what business of yours (OP) is it how many guys a girl has been with. You like her of you don't.
ADF Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I think you need to wake up. A 20-year-old woman who's already slept with 20 guys is likely to be a helava lot better in bed than a 20-year-old who's only slept with a couple. Not only shouldn't you call her a slut, you should write every other guy she's been with a thank you note.
DadofTwoGirls Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 The number of guys she's ridden does not make a slut.. In a nut shell..a woman who gives you a BJ then lets you BF her is just sexual.. A woman who lets you BF her then gives you a BJ..now that's a slut..IMHO
sagetalk Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I think you need to wake up. A 20-year-old woman who's already slept with 20 guys is likely to be a helava lot better in bed than a 20-year-old who's only slept with a couple. Not only shouldn't you call her a slut, you should write every other guy she's been with a thank you note. No, 20 at 20 is ridiculous. Wouldn't touch her with a pole if she looked like Cindy Crawford in her prime. I'd run like I was being chased by lion from that girl. And I'd write them a thank you note saying, "Thanks for letting me know what type of girl she is. You guys saved me alot of grief. You rock! :cool:"
sagetalk Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 IME, (female) 'sluts' tend to hang out with men rather than with other women of any sort, assuming they're straight... Those are my feelings as well.
ADF Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 No, 20 at 20 is ridiculous. Wouldn't touch her with a pole if she looked like Cindy Crawford in her prime. I'd run like I was being chased by lion from that girl. And I'd write them a thank you note saying, "Thanks for letting me know what type of girl she is. You guys saved me alot of grief. You rock! :cool:" Let's turn it around. Would have man having slept with 20 women at 20 years of age be a bad thing?
bac Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I think you need to wake up. A 20-year-old woman who's already slept with 20 guys is likely to be a helava lot better in bed than a 20-year-old who's only slept with a couple. Not only shouldn't you call her a slut, you should write every other guy she's been with a thank you note. I do not think so. It is more complex about female sexuality than just numbers. I do not think that males who have done too many ONSs are good at sex as well.
xRJ85x Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 hahaha I laughed my ass off at this thread when I saw the title. YO LOVESHACK, WHERE THE SLUTS AT!?!
xRJ85x Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I have no idea and am curious. For my standard right now a woman in her early 20's with close to 20 knotches on her belt could probably be suspicious of slutism anyone else care to express their thoughts? Triple saran wrap and duct tape. And that's under a bio-resistant suit.
Art_Critic Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 anyone else care to express their thoughts? If it were only true back in the teen days it would have been like finding the holy grail.. or a striking it rich during the gold run days.. Find one.. you find them all... hahahahahahaha
Green Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I dunno you tell me http://cdn.wg.uproxx.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/jersey-shore-girls.jpg
Ruby Slippers Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Of course we do. We always need fresh meat, and we can always trust our slut friends to share the catch of the day.
TheBigQuestion Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 (edited) No, 20 at 20 is ridiculous. Wouldn't touch her with a pole if she looked like Cindy Crawford in her prime. I'd run like I was being chased by lion from that girl. And I'd write them a thank you note saying, "Thanks for letting me know what type of girl she is. You guys saved me alot of grief. You rock! :cool:" I'm inclined to agree. It's not so much that I'd be bugged out by 20 dudes already having been inside of her in a time period that generally includes only about 3 to 5 years of being sexually active, it has much more to do with the fact that sexual promiscuity is usually indicative of other underlying issues and can bring with it a host of social problems. People that sleep around are more likely to have some sort of underlying emotional or mental issue that permeates many other areas of their lives. This has been maintained to be true countless times in psychological research. One thing I find interesting about the LS community is that this is one of the few places on Earth where an apparent majority of posters seem to think that promiscuity (particularly female promiscuity) does not and should have any negative social consequences, and that it is unfair and inappropriate to judge a person's character with it as a factor. To this I say, BS. Edited June 8, 2010 by TheBigQuestion
Jersey Shortie Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Did insecure dudes hang out with other insecure dudes? Probably. Why? They can't handle hanging out with a strong man. You know what I see in this thread? Alot of male insecurity about female sexuality. Good luck with that.
SarahRose Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 LOL insecure. What are you going to do interrogate every girl you meet as to how many people they have slept with?
Author mlh5046 Posted June 8, 2010 Author Posted June 8, 2010 no one can convince me otherwise, 20 for a girl who is around 2 0 years old is a lot. it definitely reflects other problems.
TheBigQuestion Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Did insecure dudes hang out with other insecure dudes? Probably. Why? They can't handle hanging out with a strong man. You know what I see in this thread? Alot of male insecurity about female sexuality. Good luck with that. While I can't speak for every other male poster on this board, I can safely say that I'm not insecure with female sexuality. Just because I'm generally suspicious of dating women who have had a large amount of sexual partners does not mean anything of the sort. There are practical reasons for someone to feel this way that are based on both empirical fact and common sense. So with that said, what exactly is wrong about what I posted? It's absolutely true that promiscuity is a symptom of a lot of personality disorders, major depression and anxiety, lessened emotional stability in general, "daddy"/"mommy" issues, more relationship baggage, STDs, a tendency to hop from one relationship to another with less time in between, and some guys would say it's correlated with cheating too.
TheBigQuestion Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 I should also add that in general, what I've said above has also turned out to be true in my experience. The women I have slept with (along with close friends of mine) that have been more sexually aggressive towards me and/or have had a greater amount of sexual partners than what is considered (and arbitrarily so, I admit) normal have tended to be more problematic. They've had more turbulent love lives and were more likely to be emotional trainwrecks. I can't say how this applies to men, but I'm sure it's not all that different. Like I said before, there's more than just anecdotal evidence at play here.
SarahRose Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 While I can't speak for every other male poster on this board, I can safely say that I'm not insecure with female sexuality. Just because I'm generally suspicious of dating women who have had a large amount of sexual partners does not mean anything of the sort. There are practical reasons for someone to feel this way that are based on both empirical fact and common sense. So with that said, what exactly is wrong about what I posted? It's absolutely true that promiscuity is a symptom of a lot of personality disorders, major depression and anxiety, lessened emotional stability in general, "daddy"/"mommy" issues, more relationship baggage, STDs, a tendency to hop from one relationship to another with less time in between, and some guys would say it's correlated with cheating too. So do promiscuous males have those types of issue too? You hear that men who sleep with lots of women are just having fun and it is perfectly normal but women who do it have mental issues. Why is that?
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