clueless haha Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 hey everyone!! my name is jason and i'm 18 (19 "next week!!") I'm new here, just signed up and i'm looking forward to reading up on everyone's stories i'm a good looking guy but i'm not so good with the social skills.. ever since i left highschool no one talks to each other or hangs out anymore so meeting new people (women specifically) is very rare these days... just recently however, on two seperate occasions, at two different stores, the cashier has either written her name "jamie" on my receipt and the other girl from the bookstore drew a heart on my receipt?! both girls look like nice clean girls, they are both very attractive!! stupid me just stands there with a smile on my face and i freeze or go about it casually, but too casual.. now of course i'm on cloud 9 because, like i said before, meeting women these days isn't the easiest thing but i really feel like i could get my foot in the door with either one.. my only concerns are...... 1) that i am misinterpreting these "signs" and being too hopeful... 2) does anyone else think that asking out the "cashier or barista" is desperate, i think it is what are your thoughts?? if you've come this far, thank you for reading p.s. excuse my multiple uses of smilies lol
Author clueless haha Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 and when i say "i really feel like i could get my foot in the door with either one..", i'm not looking to get laid, what i mean by that is that i am looking for a relationship
Barky Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I don't know your situation, but if you want some real advice that might kind of trip you out, I'd forget the women your age and go online and start dating some older women. They're easy, they'll show you the dating ropes, and when you're done with them they'll still be your friend and will give you advice on how to bang broads. Put your profile on some dating sites, and start hitting on older women. Tell them you don't have much experience but would like to learn. Forget the women your age. Guys in their early 20s can't get laid with young women, they don't have the skills. Go for the older chicks.
Author clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 well i'm good in bed, me and my ex were doing it almost everyday, twice a day (at least), for a whole year. as for dating girls in the 25 year old range, its not really what i'm looking for.. i'm looking for a long-term, "serious" thing as opposed to just having fun..
califnan Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 If a girl is attracted to you - and you to her... ask her more .. Ask if she would like to meet you after work ... Have in mind a place near by for a quick snack and a chat .. If you think she is interested beforehand, you have nothing to loose by waiting until she isn't busy and asking if she would like to meet .. Have some business cards printed up .... Give her your card with your contact information ... Even if she acts aprehensive at first, perhaps she will have a second thought later ...
Author clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 LOL i have business cards, but they don't have personal contact info on them, only the work number. the work phone gets picked up by my secretary, my secretary is my mom and 6 months ago i dumped a girl (my ex) that she really liked so i don't think that might go over well... i could ask her for a pen and then write my cell number on the back... i wasn't thinking about asking her out in a special way, i was going to be straight up about it but i could use the idea you presented.... how do you think i should go about this??
alphamale Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 both girls look like nice clean girls, "clean" as in what? clean of drugs and diseases?
Author clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 "clean" as in what? clean of drugs and diseases? ya i mean straight edge, like myself
Author clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 bump to the top, should i do the business card thing or no?? do you think she would even care with whats on the card, it's nothing out of the ordinary, family business kinda thing but i wonder...
D-Lish Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 bump to the top, should i do the business card thing or no?? do you think she would even care with whats on the card, it's nothing out of the ordinary, family business kinda thing but i wonder... If you are interested in a girl you should take charge and ask for her number, not offer up yours. That shows confidence. If the one girl wrote her number on the receipt, that's an invitation to call her, so just do it. As for the girl who wrote the heart on your receipt, you should have capitalized on that, slipped it back to her and said "you forgot to write down your number".
Author clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 If you are interested in a girl you should take charge and ask for her number, not offer up yours. That shows confidence. If the one girl wrote her number on the receipt, that's an invitation to call her, so just do it. As for the girl who wrote the heart on your receipt, you should have capitalized on that, slipped it back to her and said "you forgot to write down your number". I know eh?! i only thought about something like that after i got inside my truck needless to say i was kicking myself in the butt on the way home. i just stood there with a dumb smile on my face
D-Lish Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I know eh?! i only thought about something like that after i got inside my truck needless to say i was kicking myself in the butt on the way home. i just stood there with a dumb smile on my face Well, you know where she works! You have to be proactive with regard to dating. Being passive won't get you too many dates! Go back in and ask for her number. You couldn't have gotten a better opening than the heart illustration!
califnan Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 Do as others have suggested.. Go back to the establishment and speak with her when she doesn't appear to be too busy - and ask if she would like to go out sometime.. If she seems free and responsive, take it further and set a definite date.. If it seems that she isn't sure : that is the reason I suggested the business card .. It is more like a "calling card", but just has your Personal information on it - could be just your name and a cell phone number (information that can only be intercepted by you, and no others) ..
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