broncosfrk83 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Hey guys me and my ex broke up and it was due to her no longer being attracted to the way i was. Over our 3 year relationship i did change, idk why but i just did. My feelings didnt but just how we acted towards each other. We were no longer doing the things we use to and we were more or less just going through the motions. She ragged on me about not having a job. Im 19 and a i go to school full time, she is 22 and is out of college for this year but then goes back to grad school next fall. Things she wanted to have changed would be the best for me. So do i start working on change and then ask her out to try and show her the changes or do I just ignore her and wait to see if she will see them on her own? I mean im trying to get a job and its very hard to do, being 19 and no prior job experience is rough. Just im trying to figure out if taking her to dinner just casually and not even really talk about us or do i just let it be? I know for sure i want her to come back to me, that way i know she reallly wants it. Just please just give some kind of advice of what i should to do to prove to her im willing to change and im going to.
GorillaTheater Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Your best bet is to SHOW her you've changed, not tell her you've changed. Actions, not words. Besides getting a job, what do you think you need to change? How about her? Anything she needs to change?
Author broncosfrk83 Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 (edited) For awhile we put things before each other. We were no longer each other priority and it was more me. I didnt realize it untill now though. So how do i show her these things? And when? Edited January 19, 2010 by broncosfrk83
Author broncosfrk83 Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 Thanks for the response dave. But how do i go about doing that? She leaves for a week tomorrow night so what do i do?
Author broncosfrk83 Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 She sent me a text today. Its just said "noticed ur profile pic. was of Starsky...:/". She was talking about my pic on facebook and starsky is the her dog that we had gotten together. Why would she say that out of no where? And what in the world does that smiley mean? im confused on her intentions
Author broncosfrk83 Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 Anything guys? I dont know if NC is still the best for me right now? Idk if im trying to show her change and NC is not helping. She leaves tonight so i would really apreciate on some advice. Should i call her tonight and tell her to be safe and have a fun trip and small talk? or should i just wait untill she gets back and see if she calls me? If she doesnt do i call her? I just dont want this week of "fun" she is going on to help her get over us.(she is going snow skiing with family)
Author broncosfrk83 Posted January 21, 2010 Author Posted January 21, 2010 Well she left for her trip. I still want her back im just afraid she doesnt want me back...any idea on what i should do and on the things posted above?
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